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please refer to my questions about a girl I met on the soccer game. I got a broken bone now and I cannot play anymore games this season. I cannot meet with her any time soon as we only meet in the game time.
there s a lot of things I wanted to say to her , but ...
what should I do ??

any helps are appreciated

2007-02-21 14:00:12 · 5 answers · asked by LB James 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

she leaves the game right after it ends, every time.

2007-02-21 14:09:00 · update #1

5 answers

If she is a part of "your" team (sorry cause I never played sports) you should consider attending the games in support of your "Team" - even though you are really just using this as an excellent excuse to (see her)............. If you think it seems too wierd to do that, then blame your (parents - undying team spirit) or something like that.......... You could say "Yeah. My Dad said a broken bone is no excuse to sit at home while your team is out there bustin their butts..." Or somthing like that if you need.......

Anyway, As a woman, I know that she will probably see this as "Very cool" since you (in her eyes) are injured and should be at home re-couping rather than limping around on the field in support of your team.........
If you get a chance to talk to her, (or as a team) ask everyone to sign your cast (if applicable) - or at least the girls... This way she is not directly singled out (just yet).......... I don't know what else to tell you (just yet since I don't know much about the girl) but you could EASILY tell her that (while you are going to attend as many games as you can (pain permitting) you would like to know if she wouldn't mind keeping you updated by email of phone..... Sometimes email is easier cause you can say things you may feel too apprehensive to say on the phone. Plus, if you don't get the "vibe" you want from her over email, you can always dismiss it as (she took it the wrong way - cause you know how email can be so impersonal.... and all....)

Tell the team you want to be suportive of them and ask them if there is anything you can do to offer your support (again blaming your parents team spirit - if you feel too uncomfortable).... The girl will see this as "Heroic"... (Girls LOVE that stuff...) She will think "What a sweetie - here he is with a broken bone and HE is offering to HELP all of US......." You are certain to win over some serious brownie points.

When you ask for her email - if you are worried that will seem too obvious, then ask a few people - (have a piece of paper handy when they are also signing your cast - or chattin it up with you..)Just tell them you may not be able to attend all games and wanna (keep up to date with the games and stuff) THEN you won't really have to attend more games cause you can email "her" and tell her how you SO wanted to go - but were in too much pain to go.

I know guys see this as weakness - BUT GIRLS DO NOT! Girls are natural nurturers and they always like to feel needed as if they can "help" someone else (especially a strong handsome man)... It makes US feel like "Wonder-woman" when a guy needs us (for anything)

Example: My man got a bad sunburn last week. Before we went to bed, I got out the aloe vera and INSISTED her allow me to tend to his burns.... He "acted" like he was hesitant and "didn't need it" but I TOTALLY know he LOVED EVERY SECOND of IT!!!!!!
You know how good it feels for a girl to "dode" on you.............
(Dode: Step over herself to take extra care of someone....)

Know what I mean?
Well sweetie. I wish you good health and a speedy recovery.
It must suck to have a broken bone. I wince at a simple paper cut... You are so frickin brave. I'd be so cry baby that I wouldn't even be able to get on Yahoo answers... I'd just pout the whole time...........

Obviously you are a strong guy who has lots of initiative and a real go- getter........... so, what are you waiting for "Go-Get-Her"

Ciao'

Meg -

2007-02-22 06:35:18 · answer #1 · answered by VocalistGirl 3 · 1 0

this is ridiculous - your won't get "enormous" legs. of direction in case you run around a lot (in any game), your calf muscular tissues are sure to enhance and in case you have fat around your calves, you will in all hazard lose that over the years. i comprehend a lot of girls enjoying soccer and that i've got under no circumstances as quickly as seen enormous legs - in fact, skinny women improve company toned legs incredibly than super calves. power is a few thing which will improve too yet its the technique that concerns extra. do no longer even worry with ridiculous claims and revel in soccer: its a staggering game.

2016-10-16 05:21:38 · answer #2 · answered by lipton 4 · 0 0

You should go watch her play in the games, and also support the team you were on.
After the game you two could go get something to eat, and thats when you can talk with her.

2007-02-21 14:04:46 · answer #3 · answered by trackgirl77 1 · 1 0

Well
Go to the game and act like you are saporting your team and then talk to her a little bit and have her get to know you. It won't hert. Try to talk to your friends to get her number, but do not stalk her, lol! Then tell her how you feel.

2007-02-21 14:04:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

You can still *go* to the games, right?

2007-02-21 14:02:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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