Im in love but he hates me. i saw him in church today nad i started to cry i know im not supose to cry but he was i dont no the word. . . lovley, peaceful, happy, beautiful. I CANT STOP LOVING HIM! I NEED TO I AM TRYING! people say i cant so im trying. his name is Max. . . please don't laugh hes . . . i love him. what should i do? he absolutely HATES Me... i love him
2007-02-21 13:39:37 · 9 answers · asked by kkamdog 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've been in a similar situation... I'll tell you right now that there is nothing you can do right now to stop loving him. All you can do is completely remove him from your life. If you don't see him or talk to him or about him it gets easier with time. Don't think about him. Keep yourself busy with school, or work, or whatever it is you love in your life. If he hates you he is not worth your love. B/C love is all knowing and it is the ultimate everything...there will be other loves in your life.. I promise you this. Keep busy and look forward to new loves in life. Until they come remember no man or boy is worth your tears... and the one who is won't make you cry..
2007-02-21 13:49:47 · answer #1 · answered by sweetheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if u feel he hates u, then there is nothing u can do. U need to give it time to cool down. I dont know the circumstances surrounding the break, but time does alot for people who appear to hate u.
Dont dwell on it. It isnt gonna help any and ur just gonna be more miserable. U cant change the way someone feels about u. U have to let it go.
Find someone to take ur mind off of him.
Good luck.
2007-02-21 13:47:21 · answer #2 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh, oh oh, Sounded like my church going ex who was big friend with the other guy who constancely attended church etc and we had two children BAD BAD BAD! This is when I dislike a church so if Your hated Now What makes you envey him change your power of thought consentrate on the sermon!
2007-02-21 13:50:20 · answer #3 · answered by David H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
loving someone doesnt mean that that person will love you back...the beauty of love is that it is unconditional....you cant say you love someone only if they love you back.....if you love....you love....if you get it back you are lucky...if not then its not meant to be....love is a wonderful thing but can hurt so much....i know what you are going through....because ive been through the same....i let him go....it hurt like crazy....but i realised that i shouldnt let love hurt me....i should grow from it.....i learnt to get on with things....and then i met a wonderful man who i didnt fall in love with straight away but ended up being my best friend....and now he is my husband.....it all works out in the end sweety...you have to look at the big picture....you can either let love hurt you or make you stronger....you decide!
:)
*cuddles*.....feel better soon sweety!
2007-02-21 13:49:20 · answer #4 · answered by Jia K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do he hates you at the first place?If you are seriously in Love,ask your church mates to help you paste back.
2007-02-21 13:43:59 · answer #5 · answered by Goosters 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps the best way to show this to him is to get ahold of yourself and not fall to pieces everytime you see him. I don't know your story, but what is it that you do to make him want to love you. hint,crying all the time isn't it.
2007-02-21 13:45:48 · answer #6 · answered by al b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he does not love you then you have to move on. You will find someone else to love. You will be ok.
2007-02-21 13:43:44 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i have the same problem, so what i think u should do is try to go out with somebody else that worked out for me.
not really!!!
2007-02-21 13:48:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
*HUGS*
Time will heal all wounds.
2007-02-21 13:43:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋