IM deppressed. I admit it. I want some phycological help,but I don't want to tell my parents. Im not even in High School yet.
My dad got angry with me. He had said "WHY DO I HAVE TO TELLYOU KIDS EVERYTHING? YOU CAN'T DO SHI* RITE!" Then he said "What does your room look like?" and I wasn't going to lie...so i said messy. "He said YOUR NOT GOING TO SOCCER PRACTICE!" I got really sad b.c i havent been all week. But I went to clean up my room. Then I forgot to take my shoes off before I went inside, and I got yelled at more. Then I had left my dishes in the sink, and he got mad at me and threw the glass plate forcefully on the ground, and it smashed into pieces. Then he told me to clean it up. I felt like I was picking up the broken pieces of my heart. I was crying then, and thinking about this guy who all of a suddeen turnd on me and started to hate me. I like him and We used to be best friends. Im depressed, heart broken, and lately, being ignored. What do i DO?!
2007-02-21 13:25:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
turn to jesus i feel for you like seriously i do its the worst thing isnt it you feel like you are on your own so turn to jesus just pray hand your life to him just believe in him thats it all you need
2007-02-21 13:35:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
How long has it been since you told your dad and mother you loved them. Fathers who work sometimes have problems with people at work who are difficult and then when they come home angry forget that their families are not the workplace and lash out at them. Forgive him and tell both your dad and mom you love them and show it by not dreaming so much and being responsible. Like cleaning your room and not forgetting to put your dishes in the dishwasher. I'm sure he still loves you and if you have your room clean and ask him to forgive you and tell him you wont let it happen again I'm sure he;ll come around.
I don't think this is a major depression just a down cycle in your relationship. It happens all the time and will get better.People all have small ups and downs in their mood depending on how they perceive how others feel about them. When your dad, mad from work, saw you hadn't been responsible he took it to mean you didn't respect his rules. It helps when something like this happens to think of more friendly times and forgive the other in your heart. Don't allow yourself to dwell on the bad negative things. Keep your chin up; it'll get better!
Peace and Love!
2007-02-21 22:37:27 · answer #2 · answered by Mad Mac 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that it may be your dad who's depressed and it's affecting you (that's what's happened to me). If that's the case then there's a strong possiblity you have depression because of genetics.
As for talking to someone, a best friend, a teacher, a counselor at school, your mom, maybe even your dad. You'd be surprised.
And it will get better. I know it doesn't seem like it, but the years before high school are the worst (college isn't much better right now either) but things will work out. Just hang in there.
2007-02-21 21:47:19 · answer #3 · answered by dancerhelen2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't tell your parents, go to the school counselor and they will make sure you get help. Your dad doesn't realize how his anger is affecting you! I had a mom like your dad and I moved out as soon as I could!(I was 17) You have every right to feel the way you do. Stand up for yourself and tell someone. I am sorry your so sad!
2007-02-21 21:48:10 · answer #4 · answered by Sunshine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all, if anyone has mental issues its your dad because a grown man shouldn't act that way towards his children. throwing plates is terrible behavior for a father, and i would say that he neeeds counseling or something, because he most likely has problems, so he takes it out on u. with the situation with your friend, i wouldn't worry too much about it, because things like this usually work themselves out, and if you're not even in high school yet, you'll make plenty of new good friends. i just had a dispute with a friend about two or three months ago, and things are already looking better between me and him. so hold your head up
2007-02-21 21:36:26 · answer #5 · answered by Mark 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey,Go see a school counselor. You're dad sounds like he's not a happy camper. Where is you're Mom in all of this?Also try to be a little more responsible. Keep you're room clean,help with the dishes & chores.Most important, respect you're self.Good luck.
2007-02-21 21:41:11 · answer #6 · answered by jimbobob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your dad sounds like my mom, I usually freak out. I'm trying to get answers too. I might be depressed too. I just sit alone for along time and try to chill out. i just have no controle over anything. I've just kind of ran away a few time, but they just keep getting mad at me. try the counting to 10 and breathing slowly thing. that sometimes helps, when i can breathe. if you stop breathing then i don't know what else to say. i usually stop breathing though. good luck, and i hope your life gets better.
2007-02-21 21:34:29 · answer #7 · answered by shan_tora 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a best friend? If so, you need him or her to be there for you to talk to. The best thing to do is accept Jesus as your personal savior and follow His way and He will lead you through it. Go to your church, if you have one, if not find one you like and talk with the youth Pastor. He can help you a lot, because he deals with kids and their problems on a daily basis. Hope this helps.
2007-02-21 21:33:40 · answer #8 · answered by greghllwd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am also depressed. i'm here if u want to talk dogmicjoe@yahoo.com. try to go to a site www.holisticonline.com and www.more-selfesteem.com. to help you.
2007-02-21 21:38:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋