he ignored my text. I just texted him to ask him if he is getting better he was hospitalised with a virus.
everything just dawned on me that all along he was trying to show me he is not interested. But i just kept giving hope and thought maybe he is just shy. he is a shy person but avoiding standing next to me and stuff like that was also the way he wanted to show me he rejects me
so now I feel like i am being ripped apart. I am so embarassed for sending him the text. I would have been much better if he text back to reply very coldly. Feel like i am hung in mid air. Maybe he will suspect I like him, but all along I was just trying to be a friend.
There was nothing in the message just a friendly note. Why doesn't he reply?
What shall I do when I see him in class? I feel like killing myself. kidding. But this hurts.
2007-02-21 13:22:38 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he was discharged 2 days ago but confined to home. i sent him the text 2 days ago.
2007-02-21 13:34:48 · update #1
First of all, calm down. Chances are, if he has not given you any sign at all, there may be a chance that he may have received quite a few of these notes and just tends not to be the type of guy who sends back messages. I know that I hate doing it sometimes too, since I then get a thank you note for my thanks you and have to send another one, etc.
If he really just isn't interested you in that way. I'm sure that there are better guys out there for you. Try to be friends, but if it doesn't work out for either of you, please don't completely lose yourself over this guy. ~
2007-02-21 13:27:21 · answer #1 · answered by xdannifenx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry. I know how it feels, because that happened to me once too. He was my friend for a year and I told him I liked him and he ran away from me. I ended up having to hear from my bestfriend that he'd just broken up with his girlfriend and didnt know how to let me down gently. so a big group of my girlfriends got together and chased him around the parking lot with a trashcan. Dont know if they got him, but he deserved it. It will hurt for a while, there's no way around it. I'd just ignore him in class. Dont talk to him unless he talks to you. If he can see how great you are from the get-go, then thats his problem.
2007-02-21 13:45:09 · answer #2 · answered by Samantha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, don't be embarrassed about it at all! You shouldn't get down on yourself because if you think about how his behavior has been, then why would you want to start seeing him? Consider his attitude a warning for everything a girl/woman DOESN'T want. You sound like a nice person and you deserve better than that. Good luck to you!
2007-02-21 13:29:19 · answer #3 · answered by San Francisco Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you texted him, he ignored it...
if he was in the hospital while you text him, he isnt going to see it....cell phones arent allowed to be on in hospitals.
if you text him and received no response in a couple of days, do it once more.
if no response after the 2nd time, move on.
this same thing goes for voicemail, if a person doesnt answer after 2 times, its not worth your time to continue.
any normal person that would be interested in someone would make the time to respond. playing hard to get is cool after the first message but not after the second one.
no such thing as "i am too busy"
2007-02-21 13:32:31 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm! I think that is kinda rude. I mean if ur just trying 2 b a friend...? Well, in class eitheir u talk 2 him or not, don't talk about the text. It will prolly b wierd, but if he is really ur friend, he will talk 2 ya! hope this helpz BUNDLEZ! LoL! :]
2007-02-21 13:28:18 · answer #5 · answered by $$avacadOheadd. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
COME ON! U DON'T KNOW THAT 4 SURE!!!!!! if someone is hospitalized w/ a virus, then confined to home, will they really WANT to check thier text messages. DON'T FREAK OUT. JUST THINK. what kind of person is he? would he really do this kind of stunt? THEN, make a decision.
-SIREE
2007-02-24 11:48:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did it ever occur to you that he didn't get the message? Or did you ever think that maybe he is not feeling well enough to be messing with his phone? Simmer down will you? Get all the facts before you act like a fool.
2007-02-21 13:30:05 · answer #7 · answered by l'il mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long has he been in the hospital, and how long has it been since you texted him? It could just be that he hasn't read it yet. Most places, cell phones have to be turned off inside a hospital, especially if the owner is a patient.
2007-02-21 13:27:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look hun,
you showed him you cared, and you let him know he isnt meaningless to you. its his fault for being a jerk about it. if he was nice enough he would reply to your text even if he didnt like you. he isnt worth the worries, because people like him wouldnt be a good bf anyways. in class act normal. people who know eachother send eachother texts all the time, hes the one to make the big deal out of it. even if he finds out that you like him, well so what, you are human and you are allowed to have feelings! who knows what is wrong with him. find another guy who cares about you:) good luck
2007-02-21 13:30:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say send him one more tex and let him know that will be the last one and if he figures out what he wants give you a call and maybe you will be available. Dont let him have that power over you. I know it hurts but he did the wrong, not you. I wish you well.
2007-02-21 13:27:11 · answer #10 · answered by wingedladyk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋