okay know this guy that has cheated on his girlfrend more than once. and i tells me alot of stuff. like i love her but i dont know if she s the one . but god know . if he truely loved her he would not have cheated on her right?
2007-02-21 13:19:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Right. If people are with who they really want to be with, they do not cheat.
2007-02-21 13:23:40 · answer #1 · answered by T Time 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like I said before once a cheat always a cheat.Men make up all kinds of excuses as to why they cheat,there are none.I feel like if your not finished running around with different people,then you shouldn't try and commit yourself in a relationship with someone just to hurt them.Maybe she should rethink her relationship with him,because if he did it more than once he will do it again.Trying to find out if she's the one or not doesn't mean you cheat,you spend time with that person and see how you relate and get along with each other.If a person cheats once and is forgiven then it probably was a one time mistake on their part,given whatever the circumstances are and they never do it again in life,then that's different.But someone who has cheated more than once,will do it over and over again.Good luck
2007-02-21 21:29:54 · answer #2 · answered by glorene b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say he doesn't really love her. I know a lot of guys that have done this, and they all say they just craved the attention...BS. I've never cheated myself because I know how it feels to be cheated on. But yeah, i'd have to say that when you love someone your not going to cheat on them. If it's that bad that you have to do that, just get out of the relationship altogether.
2007-02-21 21:26:21 · answer #3 · answered by mighty1981mouse 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he really loves her then he would not have cheated. He is just trying to get you to feel sorry for him. Just tell him if he really loved her than he would have never cheated on her. Also ask him why he does it.
2007-02-21 21:34:29 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the person. My husband and I both cheated on each other in our younger years. By younger I mean 19-20. It's taken 5 years to repair what we have done to each other, but we loved each other then and we love each other now.
2007-02-21 21:25:21 · answer #5 · answered by qtfootsies 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are with someone and you dont know for sure, then they shouldnt make a comittment. Once you are saying, I love you, it should be to only one girl. You are totally correct. Give him a good talkin. You can tell him if he is gonna keep that up you dont want to hear it.
2007-02-21 21:24:27 · answer #6 · answered by wingedladyk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys really love thier gf's, but cheat anyway. So, he could really have feeling for her, but still stepping out with others.
2007-02-21 21:23:29 · answer #7 · answered by tigerprincess_bee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not okay to ever cheat. So....she doesn't deserve that unfaithfulness (not to mention the threat of disease he may be passing on). The cheater is bad news!
2007-02-21 21:24:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very bad to cheat a sincer & lovely friend. Your view is O.K. in this matter.
2007-02-21 21:23:57 · answer #9 · answered by P S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you kinda answered your own question right if you really love someone how could you cheat on them
2007-02-21 21:23:56 · answer #10 · answered by wolftv 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋