Well his name is TJ & he's my friend Cara's brother. I RARELY EVER get to see him & I don't even know if he knows I exist!!! what can I do to make TJ notice me when I get to see him??? & Should I tell my best friend that I love her brother??? I NEED HELP!!!
2007-02-21 13:07:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's in 6th grade & I'm in 7th grade!!!
2007-02-21 13:21:49 · update #1
this is rare, but on the potehr hand, happens to a LOT of girl i have talked to. Well, do not tell your friend unless you really trust her and she is your best friend. If you really like T.J, tell him how you feel, and depending on your age difference, he migjht or might not understand. Trty to act your best in front him, sio that he notices you.
2007-02-21 13:11:02 · answer #1 · answered by MEOW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys are best friends, you must can tell her that, but you have to respect her. If she's uncomfortable with it, you need to back off, even if it hurts, because she's your best friend. There's no reason why she will have a problem with it though. If she's OK with it, then she'll help you get him. Try as much as you can to see him and be seen. Don't be vulgar, just be yourself. Get her to talk about you at dinner when everybody, including him, is there. Let him get curious. come over for sleepovers, those stuff. You're not in love with him yet, you like him. Don't rush it. Good luck.
2007-02-21 13:18:02 · answer #2 · answered by Girl-In-Blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, dont know what the age diffence is between u and TJ. also, do u think i t wud ruin ur relationship with Cara? coz u dont want to lose that. mebe talk to her about. she knows both of u really well so cud mebe give u more advice? dont let it affect your friendship. i dont think u shud say to Cara that u love TJ, love is a strong word. Especially coz u say yourself that u rarely even see him. good luck, hope it turns out great xxx
2007-02-21 13:14:58 · answer #3 · answered by *Evie* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
telling your friend is probably not the right way to go, since most siblings feel weird when other people say they like their brother or sister. i know from experience, it is not a good idea. plus how much older is this brother. if a lot older then i would say just forget it, if he is closer to your age, then feel free to try to flirt him up when you see him, but again there is that whole awkward being friends with his sister thing.
2007-02-21 13:13:35 · answer #4 · answered by dragonrayne2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should let him know how you feel. try dressing a little different around him to spice up the mood and act a little grown up around him try saying hi and stuff to him when you see him and make sure that the eye contact is soooo there it's like he is looking in your soul through your eyes okay good luck make sure u talk it over with your friend first
2007-02-21 13:12:43 · answer #5 · answered by m. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your best friend will tell you whatever you want to know about her brother, who knows more of him than his own sibling?
if you want TJ to notice you, speak up and say HI, show attention to him, show interest in him, he should be able to pick up those hints unless he is a complete lunkhead.
2007-02-21 13:13:22 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not. You may mention that you think he's sooooo cute after a sighting and wait to see her reaction, however. If you just come out and ask, she may think that you are using her to get to him. Unless of course you are, then go ahead and ask. I don't think you are and if you want to keep your friend then be subtle. Have fun.
2007-02-21 13:13:43 · answer #7 · answered by Ofie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T tell your friend, but try to go places where her bro is at. By spending time in his presence, you'll soon find out if the interest is mutual.
2007-02-21 13:10:45 · answer #8 · answered by LuckyO 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't do it! i will wreck your friendship with your friend, my kids went through the same thing and none of them are talking,it's been a year now
2007-02-21 13:11:44 · answer #9 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No lies, no denial, just go for it.
Dont search, dont find
xoxo
2007-02-21 13:14:51 · answer #10 · answered by angie_anal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋