i like someone?

Question

but he
-has a girlfriend
-doent know me hardly

but he is the dream guy i have been looking for and is everything i want in a guy. dont want to stop liking him, i want to be with him but i know i cant. i dont usually see this in a guy but i really can imagine us getting married. so...?

Answer 1

just see what happens if they break up get 2 know him. if not you can crush still just leave him and his gf alone.

Answer 2

if he hardly knows you, I am unsure how you can know him so completely that can see yourself getting married to him. You have 1 of 2 options. 1. You can profess your love for him and basically throw yourself on him. This is the "force his hand" move because it doesn't allow him to skirt around the issue. He will either say, "Oh, I have feelings for you too, but I have a girlfriend (rejection), Oh I have feelings for you too, let's hook up (woohoo)" This road sucks and I wouldn't recommend it unless you're that impatient that you can't try 2.
2. You wait around for him and his girlfriend to break up. Odds are they will especially if they're under 20. Even if they're older the odds are the relationship won't last. You could try to be sneaky and sabotage it by asking him to hang out "as friends". Try to learn as much about his girlfriend as possible. If you can, ask his friends what she does that bothers him (in an indirect fashion) and then use this in a conversation...ala "Oh, I hate girls who do xxxxxx, I don't understand it." This is pretty devious but since you're convinced he's the one you're either going to do something about it or you're going to pine away regretting everything you're not doing/didn't do. So hop to it soldier, they didn't coin the phrase "All's fair in love and war" for no real reason!

Answer 3

Well if you think this guy is your dream guy wait a while and see if he breaks up with his girlfriend. And if he hasn't breaken up with her you can see if he is really the right guy for you. remember maybe there are other guys around that like you and think the same thing or a guy that doesn't have a girlfriend but is more of a dream guy then the other guy. remember there are other fishes in the sea. So Good Luck :)

Answer 4

this is almost EXACTLY the situation i'm in now, and i kno its easier 4 me 2 tell u wat 2 do than 4 me 2 do it myself, but i still have 2 say, for the both of us, it may be easier for us 2 just finally tell these guyz that have us in the palm of their hands how we feel. Nothing extreme. Just that we like them a lot. I know it sounds lame, but you can't exactly go up 2 someone and say " omg, i cant stop thinking about u, ur perfect, i can see us getting married." not unless ur actually old enough 2 get married.
maybe this guy actually likes u 2, but didnt know u liked him like that. I f this guy is truly the one for you, you owe it 2 urself 2 at least give him a chance 2 let u know if wat ur feeling is real or not.
I'm going 2 try 2 do this, 2. Hope it works out!

Answer 5

Find out what his relationship with his girl is like. If it's bad, you may have a chance. If they're in love and happy together, get over him. It may be hard but thats reality. Besides there are plenty more fishes in the sea. =)

Or....
Act like you didn't know he had a girlfriend, and when she's not there go up to him and meet him. You will never know if you will amaze him just as much as he amazes you....and if your meant to be together, he will dump his girl for you. I once did that but I really did not know he had a girl, and we're still together.
Or...
Meet him, but act like your not wanting him in that way, he could be what you least expect. So get to know him before you jump to a conclusion that he's the perfect one for you.
Hope this helps.

Answer 6

first off be come friends with him that will help in the long run. then if matter how old y'all are if y'all are like younger like 13 14 or 15 maybe 16 or 17 then just give it some time most guys that age go from a girl easily so that may not be the best thing for you. but if you are older like 17-over like 30. then see how much he is in to this girl if he is really in to this girl. then if you like him enough then it is best if you just let him go. but if he is not than you can like start flirting with him and stuff like that then try your best to get them to break up. but if he means a lot to you than fight for him. but don't forget to be friends with him.

Answer 7

well if he has a girlfriend, you could "dispose" of the girlfriend, unless you dont want to make the guy sad...otherwise you will have to wait untill they break up then just ask... if he says yes then good else it was worth a try and if you didnt ask you would never know if he would say yes anyway

Answer 8

Whoa there.....if you hardly know him, then how do you know that he's the one for you? If you really honestly and truthfully love him or have a strong like), then respect the fact that he has a girl and just get to know him an be his friend. If it's meant to happen, it'll happen. But cheer up....please!!! The man for you is out there!!

Answer 9

Continue to like him from afar. However, don't obsess over him or think about him incessantly. try to meet other guys and go out with them. Continue to talk to this friend, let him know you like him as a friend. Perhaps in the future, your friendship with him may blossom into something else. In the mean time, I would suggest you not over obsess about him. You be in charge of your life, not the your feelings (emotions) be in charge of you.

Answer 10

I don't have the best advice, but maybe get to know him. don't flirt with him or something that's just horrible. If he's a total jerk, then forget him. if he's not and you know that he won't take advantage of you, be friends with him. Then you'll see if he likes you. It all takes time....

Answer 11

He is taken, you need to find your own guy, i know that's not what you want to hear but, that would be shallow if you went after him. If you were to go after him, there is a risk of getting your butt kicked by his girl or one of her friends...