Me and my fiancee just got back together after a 6 months break. As much it was joy i still felt a lil bit funny that we are back couse we had such a big fight that i never expected us to be back again. Now that she is back with me she hasn't mention it to either her family or friends that we are together. Her reason is that they would force her to leave me again and give her a hard time. So at times she lies to ppl when she meets up with me. Reccently we had fight i was suppose to meet to disscuss an urgent problem that i was facing and i wanted her support. She said she would meet me after work but she made me wait for 2 hours and then she left with her friend (Girl) but she told me she was busy and was going back back with her mum. I cought her lying and call her on it. Then I kindda lost it. I would have understand if she told the truth but to catch her lying it was hard cos it brought back bad memory of our past and i lost my temper and said rather nasty things.How do i fix this?
2007-02-21 12:45:33 · 4 answers · asked by 2PAC187 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Break it off. I know you don't want to hear that. But this is a bad sign for you future. You will fight like this and worse once married. You need to work on yourself and anger and trust. Then you can revisit relationships. This is not a sturdy foundation to build upon.
2007-02-21 12:54:39 · answer #1 · answered by BellaLuna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I"m sorry to say, but I don't know if you should want to fix it. You are engaged, yet she doesn't want people to know you are together? It is very hard being single on your own. Sometimes even a bad relationship has its comforts, but this doesn't sound like it is going to go anywhere unpainful. Sorry , you sound like a nice guy, but you were absolutely right in being angry.
2007-02-21 20:55:33 · answer #2 · answered by Sleepless in Seattle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say sorry for one and that you were stressed about your own situation going on, then ask why would she lie when you two just got back together, and if she cant give you a honest answer its time to walk away....
2007-02-21 20:54:36 · answer #3 · answered by Renee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are clearly not in a steady relationship. get some counseling or leave her.
2007-02-21 20:48:38 · answer #4 · answered by X-tine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋