2007-02-21 12:29:34 · 7 answers · asked by deny l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DOnt listen to that "get rid of inexperience' bologna.
When you are with the one you love, that doesnt matter, it is a shared learning experience and a bonding thing for you tboh ANYWAY regardless of experience, but its that much more special when its with the ONE person you HELD OUT FOR.
I am 24 this year, and a virgin, I will stay one till I marry.
So what?
This culture vamps up sexuality far too much, its becoming a part of this throw away society. Use someone for it and leave.... thats awful and I want no part of it. When I am fully in loev and ready to commit to someone, I will in every way; that will be the one person I entrust myself to mind body and spirit. No one less. So Until i find that person that I can commit to on that level, it aint gonna happen.
And its not hard for me, either. I am only physically attracted to those I have strong feelings for. And I only have feelings for those who meet my hgih standrads.
Not many people. :)
I occuppy myself in other worth while pursuits in the mean time: Such as, finishing my degree, pursuing my career, saving up to move, you know- IMPORTANT things. I dont waste my time thinking about such malarkey as "what do others think that I am a virgin" What a brain-sapping & chidlish thing to worry about.
2007-02-21 12:44:04 · answer #1 · answered by Yentl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG, I can not even imagine that. Not a bad thing or anything, but I started when I was 13 (an older guy showed me the ropes) and now I'm still only 17 and think of all the fun I've had, I guess if you're saving it for some reason food for you, but - dying a virgin is scary, and no one knows when something will happen, and all that. I was ready and eager when I found help getting rid of my inexperience, when your time of "ready" arrives, you'll know it!
2007-02-21 20:38:16 · answer #2 · answered by barefoot_always 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so !~! there is no big deal to it, if you want to waite untill marriage than waite i am sure this person is looking for you and if you dont want to waite till marriage than hook up with somebody and get laid. There is NOTHING WRONG with being only 20 and still a virgin i think its great i was 19 when i lost myne and i was married. So more props to you i hope you do what you feel is best.
2007-02-21 20:35:33 · answer #3 · answered by mommyandbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 20, virgin, and i've been seeing my boyfriend for a year now. i have no doubts that i want him to be my first, but it's all about when you're ready...not age.
2007-02-21 20:36:26 · answer #4 · answered by X-tine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I promise you, it's okay. In fact, if you wait and you find the right person, the experience will be worth waiting for because it will be incredible. Whatever you do, don't waste your first time; it only happens once.
2007-02-21 20:34:34 · answer #5 · answered by onsilverwings 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a good thing. save it for marraige...
2007-02-21 20:36:21 · answer #6 · answered by Gainy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u or r u not what is the question?
2007-02-21 20:33:29 · answer #7 · answered by Erikatothextreme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋