ok, me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 3 months and 2 weeks, today i said something really stupid that i should have kept to myself, and she now says she doesnt want me kissing or touching her, whats this mean?
2007-02-21 12:23:56 · 22 answers · asked by mtlmstbhevy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i said something about her ex, and she told me i judged her
2007-02-21 12:29:19 · update #1
Clearly you have upset her with whatever you said. It's pretty hard to actually answer this question without knowing what you actually said, though I would guess it has something to do with the physical/sexual nature.
All you can really do is apologize and try to make it up to her. If you can, see if you can get her to tell you why she's upset about what you said and explain why you said it while apologizing for saying it in the first place.
Flowers are always a nice touch too. Spend a few bucks and go buy her a single rose or something like that.
Ultimately, you have to make sure that you're both on the same page. Whatever has caused her to not want to be kissed/touched by you must be addressed and you both must be in agreeance on whatever that topic was.
And be sure to chalk this up as a life lesson and never say something stupid like that again. :) Good luck.
2007-02-21 12:30:22 · answer #1 · answered by wa-webguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what u said, you didn't say, so we can't provide the best help. but i think all that means she maybe wants to either breakup with you, or she wants to ignore u for a while so both she, and you will cool down a bit. I suggest going down a few lvls and being just "super great friend and a little more" with no kissing or touching for a while. she'll get that you're very sorry soon enough. You need to be extremely humble. She'll catch you're drift, and you might get back togehter (but i don't know what u said so this may not always be true).
Me hopes me helped 8D and i hope your problems disappear as the minutes pass.
2007-02-21 20:29:21 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Cute T ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably is thinking about ending the relationship. Often, if a girl can't break up with someone on the spot (because they are confused, upset, or don't want to hurt their bf) they simply halt the relationship. They no longer let things move forward and even take back some "physical" things that they have already done. It is as if they decide that they don't want to further the physical relationship with someone they don't think is going to prove worthwhile. I hope you can apologize well!
2007-02-21 20:29:20 · answer #3 · answered by Confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt have touch the topic of an "ex" cause I think this is something to do with jealousy,failure, embarassment and annoyed. How do you feel if she said the same thing to you. Think about it. Good Luck ;)
2007-02-21 20:47:35 · answer #4 · answered by Alberto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of cos, you have upset her. Now u need to make some amends and apologize. Any man that makes a woman cry and hurt her is low. Where is the love?
2007-02-21 21:00:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means you need to think about what you said to your gf and if you trully care about her make it up to her...do more than apolagize...dont kiss or touch her until things are stable between the two of you ..but you should tell her how you feel through saying sorry..
2007-02-21 20:29:54 · answer #6 · answered by Alex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that you should say to her what u did was stupid and make up with her
2007-02-21 20:27:24 · answer #7 · answered by fancythis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it means she doesn't' wan you touching or kidding her! So doode, what the he** did you say? Was it just disgusting, or a confession type thing?
2007-02-21 20:27:19 · answer #8 · answered by barefoot_always 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you haven't provided enough information. And frankly, in this case, any information could be TMI.
2007-02-21 20:27:42 · answer #9 · answered by bullwinkle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means you're in the dog house, buddy. better start really kissing her butt
2007-02-21 20:27:40 · answer #10 · answered by Antoine J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋