Ok here’s the situation: I’ve been friends with James for a year. We finally made out a couple of weeks ago, after me liking him all this year. It was great, and he’s great on every level. I just found out though that he likes another girl...and has just started dating her [after we’d kissed.] I’m friends with his 3 roommates too, and Adrian started talking to one of my friends...He apparently has liked me since we’ve met but knew I liked James so started talking to my friend. She likes him, but doesn’t want a relationship with him and is seeing other people too. He and I talked, and he confessed his feelings about me....He is amazing, and treats me better than any guy I’ve ever dated. His personality is great and he’s so sweet, but I’m just not physically attracted to him. I love that he’s so great, but physical attraction is a big thing to me. Is it possible to have a good relationship with him if I’m not physically attracted? Everything else is great...I don’t want to be shallow....
2007-02-21 12:19:56 · 5 answers · asked by diane29 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
physical attraction is the beginning of all relationships. then comes personality. but no, it's not everything.
you know, my friends' dad once said that looks arent everything, but if you get in a big fight, you've got to have something to fall back on.
but physical attraction grows on you, whether it's time or a change of heart, i dont know.
2007-02-21 12:23:11 · answer #1 · answered by Love Doctor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would I go out with a girl based solely on her physical appearance? Yes, I would. No reason to lie about it, if she looks nice to me I would definitely want to go out with her. What kind of appearance do guys like? Whatever gets their brains going I suppose. Me personally, I am partial to nice faces and long hair. I also like the more "shapely" girls in general.
2016-03-29 06:20:59 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm... I am not sure. But see what you can get from this: Physical attraction is not everything to me at all. A guy definitely has to have something in his looks that is attractice. But it's not exactly what makes or breaks things. To me, as long as he's got decent looks, to me it's all about his personality, if he can flirt with me, make me laugh, take care of me and be fun to be around
2007-02-21 12:28:18 · answer #3 · answered by YinxSphinxmen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for everyone its different, and it doesnt make you a bad person not being attracted to someone because of their physical appearance. its not a good thing, though, because you may be missing out on a great guy.
2007-02-21 12:24:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nOpe, its not every thing. hey! maybe if you start talking to him more and more you will end up liking his face.
2007-02-21 12:24:15 · answer #5 · answered by Female 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋