I was good friends with this boy from school. He's in my class and he's very smart, and funny and nice. He's a very deep person. Now I always saw him as that, just a friend. But suddenly one day, he was talking to me and I got this urge to kiss him. That day I realized I had fallen in love with him. Exactly since that moment I started truning away from him, not talking to him anymore, not even looking at him that much. I dunno why, I guess it was cuz I wanted to see if he'd fight for me.
The quest is still not solved, I'm in the process.
But u see, he says he likes this other girl, but my friend says it's only a way to get attention. And well since I sent him this nice letter on Valentine's Day (I didn't say I liked him though) he treated me differently. He started not looking at me and treating me not like he treats the rest of his friends that r girls. But I know he dosen't hate me at all. Cuz sometimes he acts kinda weird around me. What's going on? does he like me? thnks! oxox.
2007-02-21 12:06:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh and I can't tell him, for various reasons, haha. Not before I know 4 sure that he likes me too. :)
2007-02-21 12:06:39 · update #1
My BFF says maybe he's confused about his feelings for me.. is he?
2007-02-21 12:18:26 · update #2
thank you for inviting me to answer your question...
i could echo some people and say talk to him...and absolutely this would be the best way to handle things in some circumstances. I dont know how old you are but i would guess fairly young...and to be honest when you are young sometimes the thought of talking deeply to someone seems heavy and even embarrassing...
i would suggest that you watch and wait...things will only go one way or another. You have given him a letter on Valentines day, and in truth he probably knows how you feel. You also said that he likes another girl. Whether or not he does is really irrespective...its whether he likes you that counts here.
all you can do is wait and see if you dont feel able to talk to him.
I know its hard, but remember...what seems like love now may not be what you think in the future...give everything time to work itself out...if things are meant to be they find their own way...;0)
2007-02-21 12:27:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmm, its hard to tell whats going on. He may actually like another girl, or it could be a game, it depends on who he tells, and who knows about this girl. The fact that he treated you different after the v-day letter is odd, considering i dont know what was said, maybe just a gift on v-day made it obvious that you like him. Maybe hes been weird now to not lead you on, or maybe hes turning away such as you did yourself because he likes you too.
2007-02-21 12:14:44 · answer #2 · answered by Youll See 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of you has to cave in and show that you have interest in the other. If neither of you do you may pass up a good opportunity. If he's too shy to show interest then you're going to have to step up and risk it! If you dont he may just latch on to a girl that doesnt mind showing interest in him, and then you're left in the cold. If you dont know that he is interested in you maybe you can just do some mild harmless flirting with him to test him.
Good luck
2007-02-21 12:15:40 · answer #3 · answered by carpentryman05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry chicky, you MUST put your heart on the line, stop playing little girl games, and let this guy know that he is SO inside your heart.
Otherwise you will surely lose him.
2007-02-21 12:29:54 · answer #4 · answered by DidoDeeDee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your in a tough sitch.
do you mean acting weird in a good way, or bad way?
or just plain old weird?
it is possible that he likes you,
but it is also possible that he doesn't share your feelings.
depending on how he is acting,
i really dont know what advice to give you,
but good luckkk! :]
2007-02-21 12:11:54 · answer #5 · answered by MAC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he likes you so just say "Hey do you want to see a movie"? and if you guys used to be friends then he will except and you ask him there! and have a good time and don't stress!
2007-02-21 12:13:11 · answer #6 · answered by kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,i think you should talk to him and ask him if he likes u as more than a freind,that wouldnt be telling him u like him its just a question.there is really no excat way to tell if he likes u or not and to ask him in person is the best way to no
2007-02-21 12:12:59 · answer #7 · answered by ~Dreamer~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that he thinks...since you dont really talk to him cuz you like him, that he thinks that is how he has to act. because he likes you...
if that made sense.
2007-02-21 12:13:29 · answer #8 · answered by rachbuzz12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋