if you are dating someone for 6 months or more, should they give up being on other dating web sites, and is it right for you to check and see if they are active on them.
2007-02-21 12:05:19 · 6 answers · asked by FINE AS WINE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
they should most definately delete them, and check up if u feel the need. i mean single dating sites are for reople looking for a partner right??? but if he has one, why would he feel the need to still be partaking in it??
2007-02-21 12:10:02 · answer #1 · answered by Lee K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first of all, you already know the answer to this! Would it be okay with him if you did it? Yeah right! He should have already voluntarily taken himself off of these dating sites, he shouldn't even have to be reminded. If he did, once is okay, after that it's no good. There are two major problems I see here: one, if he was really into you, he would've already gotten off these sites, no questions asked and two, if you can't trust him enough to do the right thing and have to "check" on him, you should not be wasting precious months (and maybe even years of your life) on this guy. Find a guy who really respects you and wouldn't dream of still putting himself out there when he has perfect you at home!!
2007-02-21 12:13:09 · answer #2 · answered by answergrrl3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a red flag. No. They should not be on dating sites because they are not available! I understand sometimes, you pay in advance and the site runs your ad for say 6mths but after that they should not be on it. If they are still on it either they are still looking for someone or they are a "player". Ditch the guy if he tells you otherwise. My eX bf cheated on me and he had any eXcuse and every eXcuse about why he was on dating sites and other "friend" sites. Trust your instincts! Guys are such liars!
2007-02-21 12:34:01 · answer #3 · answered by asiansmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never close a door behind you till you have the other door open!
If you aren't married to someone, it is still a open door. When you get married that door will close automatically. If you open the door again, even just to peek, It could cost you a divorce. Living together is a major sin, right up there with fornication and adultery.
2007-02-21 12:11:41 · answer #4 · answered by Bigdog 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They should just not use it at all. Maybe not delete it pursay but not use it. It is okay to check out his activity too.
2007-02-21 12:10:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It isn't right for you to check: it's nasty. If you want to know, ask them.
They shouldn't be on those sites, however.
2007-02-21 12:10:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋