2007-02-21 11:48:43 · 14 answers · asked by iwearshoes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Watching porn is not gonna do it. It just takes practice. If you love your fiancee and they love you, it really shouldnt be a problem. They'll understand if you're a bit nervous and its not like you've only got one attempt for the whole night ;-)
2007-02-21 11:59:30 · answer #1 · answered by Embrisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is the bride a virgin as well? Or is that your concern, she isn't & you're afraid you won't, how do I say, measure up? :)
If you both are virgins, first I commend you both.
The chance to discover such a sacred thing together is a rareity today. It is wonderful when two people can learn ABOUT each other FROM each other.
Might want to wait until the morning after a good night's sleep. You're going to be nervous and already exhausted from the wedding. And truthfully, the first time isn't like it is in the movies. It will be wonderful, but for both of you to get to the place where you both are satisfied takes work....wonderful work. So if things aren't quite perfect, don't worry; you have many, many days ahead of you to practice.
I'm sure you know what goes where & why. If you are still concerned, run to the library or book store. But really, you'll do just fine.
Best to you both.
2007-02-21 21:56:33 · answer #2 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's only natural to be a little nervous, but don't worry because instinct will take over. ;)
the most important thing in any relationship is that you both communicate with each other. it may be hard to do at first, but if you take the time to explore each others bodies and find out what the other person likes, and not be afraid to ask or to let them know what you want, that's when you start to build the foundation of a great sexual relationship.
just remember that everyone will have those times when things just don't "click." even people who have been together forever have their days. don't stress about those times, because the reality is that those times will most likely be few and far between.
the important thing is that you love this girl and she loves you, and that you're planning on spending your life with her. you have plently of time to improve.
2007-02-21 20:03:55 · answer #3 · answered by andie11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as she *knows* you're a virgin, there shouldn't be any problems. She should be willing to take the lead, so to speak. Unless she's a virgin too, in which case it will be a learning experience for both of you.
2007-02-21 19:57:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with andie3120. Just relax, take it slow and easy. Please realize, some newlyweds on their wedding night, are so tired from the day and the wedding/reception, that they just get a good night's sleep. You will do just fine. Congrats, and take care.!
2007-02-21 21:26:21 · answer #5 · answered by SAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long have you been with her without "doing it?" kinda hard to believe but respect the fact if you are saving yourself for marriage.
i'll just recommend you watch a video (porn) or just have the girl walk you through this process. if she is a virgin too then it should be ok since its like the blind leading the blind. well have fun and congratulations!
2007-02-21 19:55:55 · answer #6 · answered by tommyhtran 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
aww, That's cute. You'll know, don't worry about it. It will be a little awkward the first few times no matter what you do. But it will be fine, really. Take care, and good luck :)
2007-02-21 19:53:35 · answer #7 · answered by Devon M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just take it slow and don't put pressure on yourself or you may not perform. Just let nature takes its course and have fun. Good luck and congrats.
2007-02-21 22:28:05 · answer #8 · answered by autumn lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't drink too much at your wedding because alcohol sometimes affects 'things'.
2007-02-21 19:57:05 · answer #9 · answered by lynnieda 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
watch some porn, but not the really hard core kind, cus that wont go over well, if she has experiences then let her take the lead.
2007-02-21 19:53:42 · answer #10 · answered by craig_pumphrey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋