After we broke up my ex said we would still be friends. He would still talk to me and hang out with me and our friends. But then he started to avoid me. It's gotten to the point where I'll walk up to our friends and he'll just turn his back on me. He won't even look at me. He dosn't talk to me at all. He won't go to any of the after school clubs we were both in before either, and won't tell his best friend why he decided to quit. We had a pretty mutual break up, he just didn't want to be with me anymore and I didn't plan on staying in a relationship where I wasn't wanted. I never did anything to hurt him. He has told me he dosn't love me anymore and that he never wants to be with me again over e-mails so I know he dosn't have feelings for me. So why can't he just be my friend? I'm not trying to get him back, but it makes things kind of weird when hes avoiding me and I don't want to lose a friend. Maybe I can fix it if I know why hes being like this. Any ideas?
2007-02-21 11:44:32 · 5 answers · asked by Simple Love 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He might just be confused or wants space and he'll talk to you when he wants to.
2007-02-21 11:49:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have actually been in a situation like this but it was kind of different i was the one ignoring me ex and i would do it bcuz i had only gone out with him in the first place bcuz i felt bad for him [[i know it sounds mean but u would never do that again]] well after we stayed friends i felt annoyed by him for some reason it bothered me that he was always there when we werent even together i just wanted to have a "hi/bye" friendship not follow me everywhere so maybe he finds himself in that position try to give him space and let him know you just want to be friends that you dont want to get back with him. i hope this helped good luck =]
2007-02-21 19:50:46 · answer #2 · answered by | KENiA | 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well something must have happened for him to just say i don't love you anymore and want to end it.. Sounds like maybe you did something and don't even know it.. I would send him an email and ask..
2007-02-21 19:47:51 · answer #3 · answered by BLONDE BEAUTY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be friends with someone who's not meeting you half way.
The relationship didn't work and neither is the friendship....move on.
2007-02-21 19:48:25 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communication is a powerful tool just tell him you wish to talk to him and tell him what on your mind i feel there maybe a misunderstand or someone fill his head with lied about you
2007-02-21 19:50:16 · answer #5 · answered by nightman122554 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋