I really like this girl in my class. im 18 and going to college. how can i start a good conversation with her?? how can i be her friend?? what do i need to have, do or say?? 10 pts. for the best answer!!!
2007-02-21 11:42:00 · 18 answers · asked by alex d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depending on what the class is about you can always start a conversation about what the teacher said that you know will last long than a min. Or even if she participates in class and she said something to the teacher you can respond to something she said. Or even just go up to her and say " do you have brother by the name of William?" she will more than likely say "NO" duh. Tell her she looks like your friends sister that you haven't seen in a long time. Tell her sorry to bother her but, what was her real name and tell her yours then ask her how she likes the class or the teacher, ask her what other classes she taking. girls love confident guys, guys who know what they want and are not afraid to get it. So now the question is are you one of those guys????
2007-02-21 11:51:02 · answer #1 · answered by Marianita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself! Plain and simple. What girls love the most is mystery. What they can't have they will want. Play a little cat and mouse for a while so you can get a feeling for her of whether she likes you or not. Take it day by day... You may want to talk to her 24/7, but play it smooth. Almost to the point of acting like you're not interested in her. (Eventhough you really are) Let your meetings with her not be an everyday occurance. One day here, one day there.... small talk works best. Or better yet, let her find you in an act of chivalry. (But for someone else) Then she'll want to get to know you even better. Once you've established that she actually does like you more than a friend, then she will be putty in your hands. Just remember that respect and romance go a LONG way! Hopefully this may help you some... good luck to you. Let me know how things progress.
2007-02-21 12:03:05 · answer #2 · answered by Garbot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet some of her friends that are guys and find out what kind of music she likes, and ect. Then when you know more about her you can start a conversation with her like... Hey I hear so and so's bands in town what do you think of their music! Then just stay friends for a while and she might fall for you! Girls normally right before college fall for their best Guy friend!
2007-02-21 11:49:55 · answer #3 · answered by ♥{Mattie} ♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all don't try pick up lines girls hate that lol and the best thing i can tell you is be yourself, be a gentleman!!!!. Try to be her friend by maybe start a conversation find out what you two may have in common and a great tip is ALWAYS LISTEN TO WOMEN remember that it will come in handy.Good luck to you!!!!hope a was a Little bit of help.
2007-02-21 11:48:56 · answer #4 · answered by sweetascandi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and don't try to impress her. You can start by asking simple questions maybe about her or school and go from there. Be spontaneous once you engange in a conversation. Also, pay attention to what she says and have somenthing to say back so she notices that you are interested. Be always nice and respectful to her.. & she'll like you
2007-02-21 11:53:43 · answer #5 · answered by BeckhamGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out for Pizza, and the words will come, find out what her interests are, what she wants to be doing in 10 years. Do you know what a good topic, to start with, is about inventions, that could take you all over the place (smile)
2007-02-21 11:48:34 · answer #6 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't force anything! Just be yourself and play it cool. Talk about school and hopefully the conversation will turn into more. If not keep trying. Girls always fall for their guy friends!!!
2007-02-21 11:45:06 · answer #7 · answered by CeeCee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 05:09:13 · answer #8 · answered by seabrooks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her your having trouble with a question could she help you out.. then take it from there.. If you don;t want to do that sit in a seat close to her girls always talk to people around them and then become friends..ask her out for coffee as friends and go from there
2007-02-21 11:46:15 · answer #9 · answered by BLONDE BEAUTY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you could is tell her she seems like cool girl and that you would like to get to know her better. Then you can ask her what she is interested in and go from there. But don't forget to tell her things about yourself too! Good luck!
2007-02-21 11:46:52 · answer #10 · answered by princess_cnr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋