I really want to have my first kiss my my first girlfriend, and we have a great relationship and all, but i really want to have our first kiss. i can never seem to find the right time, i am going over to her house sometime either this weekend or next and that is when i think will be a good time, PLEASE HELP!!!
2007-02-21 11:40:54 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She might also be just as nervous.
2007-02-21 11:45:13 · answer #1 · answered by Myglassesarealwaysclean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well make the first kiss very pleasent not long cause that wouldnt be a first kiss. Make sure youre not sloppy with the saliva or too wide mouth. Select a right time when you and her are together and nothing can interrupt you guys. Either hold her hands, put your hand on her chin or hold her waist. Make it soft no bad breath, and hope that your teeth wont be hitting hers. Just make it a kiss on her upper lip and hope that she kisses back, and when youre done smile at her and say what do you think about it?
Take Care
2007-02-21 11:48:25 · answer #2 · answered by Thrills 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just kiss her. One day when you see each other kiss her. You now give her a hug and a kiss and act like it was nothin at all. Dont make out with her but jus a little kiss and a hug and thats all. You dont have to wait for some special time cause a first kiss isnt really that special
2007-02-21 11:48:14 · answer #3 · answered by Calvin B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before I say anything else, I'm going to say that I'm new to the kissing too. If someone that seems to be experienced with these kind of things for your age answers and contradicts what i say, probably listen to that person.
With my last couple girlfriends, our first kisses were done when we were just sitting comfortably somewhere, I just took her chin with my fingers, aimed it toward me, and went in for a short kiss. Both of them were expecting me to kiss them soon, though, so i don't know if this would be a good idea. since you've never kissed before, definately don't make it too long and DON'T use your tongue. I have a feeling you probably weren't planning on it, but french kissing is for people who are used to kissing and have been kissing for a while, and definately isnt a first kiss thing for people your age (I'm assuming you are middle school, since this is your first girlfriend). so if anyone has better advice, follow their advice, and if i just don't seem to know what I'm talking about, ignore me completely. lol.
p.s. She might not be ready for a kiss, but I'm pretty sure you can judge that on your own. short kisses aren't serious in my opinion, but in some peoples they are.
2007-02-21 11:58:45 · answer #4 · answered by new b-boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have some advice but not much. I think that maybe you should start by holding her hand. Then look her deep in the eyes. But most important it should just be you and her. A first kiss should be just for two people not twenty. Good luck and I hope it goes well with you two.
2007-02-21 11:47:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a girl... I will give you a little insider's secret that we girls will probably will not tell you in person (oy! I am risking being hated here...lol) If you want to know if she is ready for the kiss... the end of her hair... if she doesn't move away when you touch her hair and you look at each other and she doesn't push you... she's ready for the most anticipated "first kiss"! (what can I say? I'm a romantic?....good luck!)
2007-02-21 11:47:33 · answer #6 · answered by Dadsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey i know it can be tuff for guys but maybe you should just ask her can i kiss you if you really want to or when it gets kind of quiet just go in and give her a peak on the cheek then just move your way closer the next time.
2007-02-21 11:44:57 · answer #7 · answered by cici 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay here is some ways.
1) If you are going to watch a movie, you can whisper something in her ear, and when she looks at you give her a kiss.
2) You can just tell her that you want to kiss her.
3) Give her a little tickle, and when she goes back to tickle you grab her hands, and kiss the girl.
I hope I helped!
2007-02-21 14:05:34 · answer #8 · answered by Emily 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well first thing you do is just go up to her at her house give her a hug say you love her and give her a kiss on the cheek and then talk to her awhile and go 4 the lips
2007-02-21 11:46:39 · answer #9 · answered by Stephy12006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make sure shes comfortable with it most girls usually are, most girls are probably even waiting for you to kiss her just don't think about it the more you do the harder it will be but don't come off to strong just little kisses first set a good mood, don't act like a pig and she'll love it promise just relax...
2007-02-21 11:45:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK what u do is u have to have to make sure she is OK with it so if u start leaning and she backs away do not do it it will mess a lot up but if she goes for it then you should to buy her something really nice though like flowers or chocolate
2007-02-21 11:45:08 · answer #11 · answered by bronte d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋