Well i have wanted a baby for a long time and me and my boyfriend talked about it and he changed his mind because of his mom but now i'm sad because he changed his mind having a baby means a lot to me every time i see one ot makes me so sad
2007-02-21 11:35:35 · 12 answers · asked by Cassie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
When the right times comes along who will have a baby. It may not be the right time now.
2007-02-21 11:39:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen, having a child that you want the way you do in the wrong situation with the wrong man can become the most painful thing you will ever go thru or think possible, seriously! Please take the hint that maybe him changing his mind is saving you grave pain and regret, the pain and love that comes with your love child are more serious than you can ever imagine while at the same time the biggest joys and memories youll ever have. This is a blessing in disguise(sp) thank God for unanswered prayors
2007-02-21 20:52:18 · answer #2 · answered by KIMBUR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Cassie, I know exactly what you are going through! My husband does the same thing to me. He wants a baby, then I get my hopes up, then he says he doesnt want to try, then he says he does. So frustrating and sad!!! I dont know how to move on either. I have just been trying to push it from my mind. And heart. I adopted a cat this last weekend....so I have something to take care of....although since Saturday she has been in hiding. =( its hard to forget about wanting a baby... I think now I am going to focus on something instead of thinking about a baby. I am going to try to diet. Maybe try Trimspa or something and exercise like crazy!
2007-02-21 19:44:18 · answer #3 · answered by Kari R 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what do you mean?;
He doesn't want a baby in his life?
He doesn't want a baby now since you both are not married?
He doesn't want a baby with you?
He doesn't want a baby because his mom told him not to?
If having baby means a lot to you then you should consider if you want to be with him.
2007-02-22 13:22:24 · answer #4 · answered by Bell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Cassie. Try to convince him. Having baby or not is up to you both but how do his mother comes here?. If it is a life and death problem for her then wait for some more time until she is out of her problem. Otherwise, tell your boyfriend not to consider her.
2007-02-21 19:58:48 · answer #5 · answered by Nepolian 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well ,i dont know how old you are, but haveing a baby , an careing for one is 2 different thing, it mean ,some night you dont sleep,,, an they clothes, dippers, food,, an the the dr, when he are she sick, it mean ,, you cant go out when you want too,, but if you think you realy up to it, keep talking to him, soon are latter you ware him down
2007-02-21 19:41:20 · answer #6 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Baby sit a brat and then revisit this question. The fact that its your BOY FRIEND who doesn't want to have a baby with you is encouraging....I suppose I would have more sympathy if it were your husband.
2007-02-21 19:39:38 · answer #7 · answered by taylorvoltaire 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
talk to him about it and let him know how passionate you are about having a baby. he should let his mom change his mind he's a grown man..
2007-02-21 19:48:35 · answer #8 · answered by missmeliss 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh hon.. I'm so sorry, I guess it's awful. U shouldn't forget, darling, u should talk to ur bf, ok?.
oxox, best of luck!!!!!.
2007-02-21 19:38:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are joking, right? Go back to school and start working on that GED. God help us all, with people like this around.
2007-02-21 19:41:19 · answer #10 · answered by lily 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋