I've been with my boyfriend for a couple of years, and I think I might have feelings for someone else. Could it be that I don't want to be with my boyfriend any more or could it be something more. I'm really confussed.
2007-02-21 11:33:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
listen, what ever you do don't leave your boyfriend cause this person you have a crush on could be a fluke, i made that mistakes to many time, i know something knew is always on your mind but don't ruin the relationship you have for something that might not ever be something.. everyone goes through that phase, but do you think its really fair to your boyfriend if he didn't do anything and you leave him for someone else just think about it, its not just your feelings you have to worry about..
2007-02-21 11:40:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you feel this way because this is your first relationship and its natural for you to want to see if someone better is out there. So yes, your feelings are normal. It is in our nature to want something more than what we have. But then people who are always looking for something better than what they have almost always end up living bitter and lonely lives because nothing is ever enough for them and they are never satisfied with their relationships and always keep chasing the horizon. You don't necessarily have to date a million guys to find the one for you, you can get lucky at times and find your perfect guy at the first go. I'm not saying that you should settle for any guy that comes along but all I'm trying to say is that if you have something special with your current boyfriend then don't just ruin it in the HOPE of something better, only to realise afterwards that you made a big mistake and by then it might be too late. Just think about what you want from your ideal guy and compare whether your current boyfriend has those qualities. If yes, then date him for a little while and see how things go and if you think that he isn't the one for you then tell him so, you shouldn't be wasting someone else's time. If you wish, you can tell him that you want to take some time off from the relationship and figure out what exactly is it that you want. Stable relationships where there is no drama and not much happening, usually do go through phases where one or both the partners kind of get bored every now and then but they just have to work at it and do things to keep that fire burning.
2016-05-24 04:46:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may just feel too exclusive, if it's been a couple of years and before that you didn't like have a long serious relationship for a while, you may feel bored and still care. i suggest you give it a while longer and if your feelings persist you should reevaluate the situation and which one you like more and are more comfortable around. if you think you are in love with your current boyfriend then don't like ditch him for temporary feelings about a guy cuz he's hotter or something. face it there will always be someone out there who's hotter, but you may be with your true love and you don't want to throw that away for nothing really good.
2007-02-21 11:44:20 · answer #3 · answered by mocktrialcutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes it can be normal. it could be relationship jiters or u could have grown tired of this boyfriend. not to pressure you but find out a little more about this guy you seem to like a if the heart grows fonder dump the boyfriend gently and go for the guy.
2007-02-21 11:41:02 · answer #4 · answered by sygirl1221 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does this other person have feelings for you?
What brought you and your "boyfriend" together? Evaluate what you have before you throw it away.
2007-02-21 11:41:23 · answer #5 · answered by m k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's bad.......... but its HAPPENING to ME TOO!!!!!!!! UGH! but ur option is to do nothing about those feelings and move on or u can dump ur bf for that other person OR u can tell ur bf u sorta have feelings for someone else but u wanna stay in this relationship and have him help u get through it
2007-02-21 11:37:37 · answer #6 · answered by i luv u, tho u broke my heart 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To me it sounds deep down you are getting board with him after all your eyes are straying
2007-02-21 12:30:52 · answer #7 · answered by larry C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its normal so dont worry if you are happy together. If not then you know where you can go.
2007-02-21 11:38:05 · answer #8 · answered by Closed Down 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not feeling him let him go easily for you can go ; on living your life your way.
2007-02-21 11:37:54 · answer #9 · answered by Twister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OF COURSE IT IS NORMAL
YOU SHOULD FIND OUT IF THE OTHER HAS FEELINGS FOR YOU FIRST THOUGH
IT MIGHT BE YOU GETTING BORED OR HIM GETTING BORED OF YOU
2007-02-21 11:41:05 · answer #10 · answered by kichianna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋