i had 3 girls tell me don't ever go out with the guy but i really want to but should i?
2007-02-21 11:21:45 · 11 answers · asked by Stephanie D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First are these girls your friends? Has he dated one of them ? If the answer is yes to both then you might want to consider not .. is it worth ruining a friendship.. however if they are not in your close circle of friends i would say go for it . what do you have to loose, i would encourage taking it slow .. don't become sexually involved with him ,at least not right away ( not sure how old u are )that might be all he is after , good luck with your situation hope i was of some help.
2007-02-21 11:29:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them why first. Just because a guy looks incredible doesn't mean that what is beneath the skin is just as good. Maybe they are trying to save you from being hurt. You should always find out the reason other people don't want you to go out with someone. Even if you disagree and go out with him anyway, at least if it goes bad, you'll be prepared and know what to do.
2007-02-21 19:25:35 · answer #2 · answered by kiera70 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so maybe they like the guy so they dont want you to go out with him. they probably know things about him and are trying to help you. just figure it out yourself. talk to them and ask them why. if they dont give you a good reason then go ahead. just be ready to defend yourself and take care of yourself if you do go out with him. good luck.
2007-02-21 19:28:22 · answer #3 · answered by MAX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it were me, i would find out why those girls don't want me to go out with them. if there really isn't a good reason, then i would go for it. good luck!
2007-02-21 19:34:29 · answer #4 · answered by no day but today 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truely like him from the heart then go for it and good luck
2007-02-21 19:36:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that s so simple. here noone has to tell you to go out with him or not . if you really do have a feeling for him , u go out with him. don t listen to your friends
2007-02-21 19:25:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you know about him? If you know nothing about him and you like him just cause he's got a hot bod', don't. But if you know him personally and he's a nice guy, forget about what they say.
2007-02-21 19:25:27 · answer #7 · answered by Joel V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you REALLY like him, go for it. It is your life and nobody else should control it.
2007-02-21 19:28:16 · answer #8 · answered by Steve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let them tell you who to date. you need to find out for yourself, and if they are truely your friends then they will be there for you if he breaks your heart
2007-02-21 19:25:32 · answer #9 · answered by Charlie H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it matters why they dont want you to go out with them.
They like them?
I would go out w/ them.
They r jerks?
I wouldnt.
2007-02-21 19:25:10 · answer #10 · answered by Lindsey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋