have you ever felt so alone?

Question

your stranded and have no place to go, wondering where your relationship is going, scared you always doing something wrong, your getting fat and feeling less attractive everyday. Hes not here, y? hes leaving for weeks. y? What am I doing wrong? I want to leave this apartment so I can stop crying but I have no car cuz I gave him mine. I can talk to people on here cuz yall dont know me if he ever found out I was talking to someone else who did and was telling them them why Im so sad he would get mad at me again and do what he did the other night.

Answer 1

get out.

Answer 2

If you're saying that he hit you, you don't have to put up with that. Please tell the police or report it or something if he is. It sounds like he could be a 'user', using you for what he can get, if you gave him your car, even just to use, and he's not being at least a friend to someone as nice as you have been.

But yes, I have felt that alone. The song that reminds me of me is "I Walk Alone" I think it's called by Green Day. It doesn't matter what I do, I can't be with another woman. I want to, but I feel like I'll never be strong enough to have another relationship. I've pretty much given up, just resigned to being alone the rest of my life. Sorry, I didn't mean to turn this into a pity party for me, just trying to answer your question and give you an example of how I feel.

Answer 3

i felt sorry 4 u,but i am not anymore. if he aint there y dont u leave. if the only way 2 get ur happiness is leaving then do that. take the bus, call a cab, do something, pack the most valuable items and the clothes u love best and go. go to ur moms, go to a sibling, go far, far from this pain, far from unhappiness, go somewhere he will never come near, even if u have to leave the state or the country. dont think about where u are going just go b4 he comes bk. if u have a joint account take ur share, dont take all of it cause he might come after u. jus go ok. if he is abusive, make sure to report it to the police and let them know. then u leave. take a plane. fly to happiness.

Answer 4

That must be really hard it's not easy the questions you want the answers to but kind of afraid of knowing them at the same time. feeling alone is terrible and you shouldnt have to feel that way. My advice would be to figure out whats going on even if it's not the answer you want to hear at least you know. Remember whether its good or bad you know and you could start to slowly heal you know you seem like a really sweet person who can do alot better than what your getting treated. I hope it works out for you in the end

Answer 5

Sounds like you are in the type of relationship I used to be in. First of all, get your car back. Secondly, if he puts his hands on you, call the police, press charges. Third, stop crying, man up girl! Next, don't fault yourself because he's not there. He's not there because he doesn't want to be there, I'm pretty sure you're a lovely person. Next order of business is love yourself honey, every inch of you, because if you don't no one else will. I'm here if you need someone to talk to. You can always e-mail me. Keep your head up girl!!!

Answer 6

Sweetheart, I think you need to look at your question and think to yourself,"What am I doing here?" Life is supposed to be fun and exciting, get you a** out of there and do your thing. If your man isn't picking up the slack then do something about it. I'm always willing to talk about anything so if you need a ear to vent on or a shoulder to lean or cry on, then just hit me up. To answer you question, yes, I have been that way that is why you need to get your a** up and do something.

Answer 7

if he keeps leaving and he gets mad at you for talking to people it sounds like you might be in trouble...if he hit you or something don't fall into the trap of pretending that everything is okay when it's not. Get help...you're not overreacting. The sooner you get out of a bad situation the better you should never feel that alone...call someone to come and get you...but get out of there...don't be another statistic! LEAVE...you can talk to him on the phone...but do not do it by yourself in person...unless you are in public!

Answer 8

what did he do to you the other night?! if he is abusive, you need to get out of that relationship fast. Call a family member or a close friend and tell them. relationships are supposed to make you feel good and happy and that is NOT what it sounds like this guys is doing.

Answer 9

Get your car and keep your independence. He manipulates by using anger to cut you off from others who can help and raise your self-esteem. Once you're cut off from other people, he can fill your head with negative thoughts about yourself so that you don't feel worthy to fight for yourself. Get your car and get out while you can. You can mourn over the loss of your relationship later.

Answer 10

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Answer 11

SOUND TO ME YOU ARE IN A ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP THAT YOU NEED TO GET OUT OF. WHY DO YOU STAY IS BEATING YOU AND YOU ARE AFREAD? I KNOW YOU ARE AFREAD OF HIM, CALL YOUR MOM, YOUR DAD, YOU BROTHER. OR YOUR SISTER. CALL THE POLICE, ASK FOR HELP BEFORE IT IS TOO LATE. I FOR THE LIFE OF ME DON'T KNOW WHY YOU WOULD WANT TO STAY, BECAUSE HE DOSE NOT EVEN LOVE YOU, HE DON'T EVEN CARE ABOUT YOU. GET OFF YOUR *** AND DO SOMETHING FOR YOURSELF. YOU NEED TO STOP FEELING SORRY FOR YOURSELF SO THAT YOU CAN HELP YOU. THERE IS NO WHITE KNIGHT, YOU HAVE TO GET OUT OF THERE. IF HE IS TREATING YOU LIKE ****, HE IS TREATING SOME ONE ELSE LIKE A PRINCESS. TAKE YOUR CAR AND RUN OR JUST LEAVE THE DAME THING. I SEE YOU ARE TOO FRIGHTEN TO LEAVE, SO THAT CAN ONLY MEAN ONE THING YOU HAVE TO FIGHT BACK OR GET THE POLICE INVOLVE THIS MAN IS DOING THIS BECAUSE HE KNOWS HE GOT YOU THE WAY HE WANTS, HE KNOW YOU ARE NOT GOING TO TELL. I BET HE IS BEATING THE HELL OUT OF YOU JUST BECAUSE. WELL, IF YOU DON'T LOVE YOURSELF ENOUGH TO GET OUT OF THERE, HE WILL KILL YOU. AND DON'T SAY I HAVE NOWHERE TO GO, BECAUSE YOU DO. GO TO THE POLICE STATION AND TELL THEM WHAT IS HAPPENING TO YOU AND YOU NEED TO BE PROTECTED FROM HIM. AND THEY WILL GIVE YOU THE PROTECTION. TO MAKE IT HARDER HAVE THEM TAKE YOUR CAR BACK, IT WILL MAKE IT HARD FOR HIM TO GET AROUND. BE A REAL WOMAN AND TAKE YOUR LIFE BACK BEFORE THIS FOOL KILLS YOU. I WILL NOT WISH YOU GOOD LUCKBECAUSE IT IS NOT LUCK YOU NEED, IT IS JUST COMMOM SENSE THAT IS ALL.