Is that MY fault shes the idiot?
2007-02-21 11:05:35 · 23 answers · asked by conmanforever123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
O yea, she was really hot too, and I mostly did it for money I got the pleasure and $50 outta it haha! She's grounded for like a year haha!
2007-02-21 11:27:38 · update #1
No it's both of your faults. You both decided to "do it" and I hope you both new the costs that came with it. Plus you are 15! What were you thinking! --For the future, just don't do it, wait until you are married.
2007-02-21 11:11:57 · answer #1 · answered by wifeandmommy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, Scary to think that YOU are going to be a father of an Innocent child!
You are equally responsible for the pregnancy.
You are way too young and mean to be a dad. There are many couples out in the world who can't have a baby. I would suggest that the child be put up for adoption.
If the girl that YOU got pregnant wants to keep the baby then legally you are responsible to help support that child. Sounds like you need to get an after school job asap.
Really children, shouldn't be having sex and prducing other children.
I just pray that YOU eventually mature and be a man.
2007-02-21 11:12:50 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is Ok that you both made a mistake. However, no matter how serious the problem is, it is still a problem that you can solve. All your life, there will be problems, problems bigger than this, or smaller than this one.
Just be calm and forcus on how to solve the problem--getting angry, freaky out only makes you helpless and hopeless.
Take a deep breath, and have to courage to talk to your parents.
You will probably experience their out of control anger-- you be calm. Tell them that You believe they are the only persons in the world who can help you in times of crisis.
Do not worry, you will solve this problem and get over this difficult time.
By the way, it is not her fault. Guys should take extra step before you decide to go in. Buy condoms, please.
2007-02-21 11:21:30 · answer #3 · answered by J F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmm you both are idiots for putting yourselves in that situation. and i understand that you might be scared but You both should have waited to have sex until you were ready to accept the fact that someone could get pregnant. You knew she could get pregnant, and she knew she could get pregnant. You should have wore a condom or taken ur dick out if u were about to ***. You were such a dumbass for telling her to shut up because its not all her fault, you both are to blame. I'm 16 and i have a friend who just had a baby. She and her bf were both scared, but in the end, they stayed together and they are now raising a kid. I think that you should stay with her or at least try to help her because its no 'one' persons fault. Dont disown her because its your baby too, and if you decide to ditch her, you are ruining her life too. Just think, in the end, there is a miracle in this, a child is going to be born. If she's thinking about abortion, research it because there are a lot of difficulties with that. My personal opinion, if you dont want the baby, put it up for adoption.
2007-02-21 11:16:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is she the idiot? She has no control over if she conceives or not. You both are stupid because you didn't use protection, or your protection broke. I suggest you apologize to her, and be there for her in her time of need. This is both of your faults and You both may be parents. Grow up and take responsibility for the things you do!
2007-02-21 11:10:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok that was damn stupid of you and her
it takes 2 to have a baby it was not just her fault
it was yours to
you really should have used a condom
and you were really stupid for yelling at her
this is the time she need you the most
and your being and a**
sorry im being really mean and bi*chy
but its true
i know im only 14 but still
did you like not have health class
now so tell her that you are sorry
remember its your kid that she is carring
and do you really want your 1st kid to have a birth defect
(stress causes birth defects)
just tell he you are
SORRY
in a big way
not just a phone call
imagin how much trouble she is going threw
with her parents
and having to carry another life inside of her!
and if you think that its tough on you
its 3x worse for her
cuz she is the one who is gonna have to get morning sickness
and deal with the pains and taunts of kids at school (if she keeps the kid)
2007-02-21 11:14:27 · answer #6 · answered by urluvmakesmeweak 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow... you expect her to shut up about being pregnant? You think her big huge baby belly isn't going to raise some questions?? She must be terrified and then you just said "shut up". What great support I'm sure you'll make a terrific father... Even if you're scared, she's scared too! You guys need to talk with your parents and everyone may opt for abortion or adoption, but you can't ignore it. Being pregnant doesn't just go away...
2007-02-21 11:15:35 · answer #7 · answered by Just another opinion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes 2 to tango. In order for a girl to get pregnant, she needs to have sexual intercourse with a boy so don't put all the blame on her. You should have used a contraceptive (which is not 100% working but it lessens the chance of getting pregnant.)
2007-02-21 11:10:33 · answer #8 · answered by Confused Loner 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you really need to have the process explained to you? You're both at fault.
2007-02-21 11:09:57 · answer #9 · answered by J2S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all it aint her fault she got pregnant she cant do it by herself!Its your fault for not using protection and hers for not checking if you had any!So your both at fault!
2007-02-21 11:09:18 · answer #10 · answered by BaBy KaTe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋