They all want to have sex?

Question

Okay, so I have dated three guys in the past few weeks and i am a little confused about it all. I am on guy number three right now.

They all have said a suggestive comment about having sex and I am not sure if I am ready but they keep talking about it and they all seem to really want me. One of these days I feel like I am going to crack but I do not want to lose my virginity like that. I am having a lot of pressure from these guys even though I am not dating two of them. I have talked to them about it but they don't really seem to care they just keep talking about it.

I really like being friends with them but all they talk about is getting into my pants.

What should I do? Give in? some of my friends say that if they want it, they should get it.

Answer 1

i can understand how you feel,i have been thier.. you should NEVER do what other people want you to do just to make them happy, Yourself comes first! Dont loose ur virginty until ur reday like when after marriage comesa round. for women giving our virginty is emotional and its harder to let go of someone and u surely dont wanna go through those pep tests.Never tell a guy that your a virgin because thats what they really would care for more then your heart. The guys who talk about sex is the ones who only want sex.. you will find a great guy trust me! it all Just takes time.. it will find you will the time is right. Good luck!

Answer 2

No! Please don't give in to them.
The following is an exerpt from a book called You're Not Ready to Have Sex If...
1. You think sex equals love.
2. You feel pressured.
3. You're afraid to say no.
4. It's just easier to give in.
5. You think everyone else is doing it (they're not!).
6. Your insticts tell you not to.
7. You don't know the facts about pregnancy.
8. You don't understand how birth control works.
9. You don't think a woman can get pregnant the first time (She can).
10. It goes against your moral beliefs.
11. It goes against your religious beliefs.
12. You'll regret it in the morning.
13. You feel embarrassed or ashamed.
14. You're doing it to prove something.
15. You can't support a child.
16. You can't support yourself.
17. Your idea of commitment is a 3-day video rental.
18. You believe sex before marriage is wrong.
19. You don't know how to protect yourself from HIV-the virus that causes AIDS.
20. You don't know the signs and symptoms of sexually transmitted infections (STIs, also called STDs).
21. You think it will make your partner love you.
22. You think it will make you love your partner.
23. You think it will keep you together.
24. You hope it will change your life.
25. You don't want it to change your life.
26. You're not ready for the relationship to change.
27. You're drunk.
28. You wish you were drunk.
29. Your partner is drunk.
30. You expect it to be perfect.
31. You'll just die if it's not perfect.
32. You can't laugh together about awkward elbows and clumsy clothes.
33. You're not ready to take off your clothes.
34. You think HIV and AIDS only happen to other people.
35. You think you can tell who has HIV by looking at them.
36. You don't think teens get HIV (they do).
37. You don't know that abstinence is the only 100% protection against sexually transmitted infections and pregnancy.
38. You haven't talked about tomorrow.
39. You can't face the thought of tomorrow.
40. You'd be horrified if your parents found out.
41. You're doing it just so your parents will find out.
42. You're too scared to think clearly.
43. You think it will make you more popular.
44. You think you "owe" it to your partner.
45. You think it's not OK to be a virgin.
46. You're only thinking about yourself.
47. You're not thinking about yourself.
48. You can't wait to tell everyone about it.
49. You hope no one will hear about it.
50. You really wish the whole thing had never come up.

It's OK to wait!
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Hope this could help in making your decision. =)

Answer 3

Dont give in. Men see it as a challenge and a trophy to wear if they sleep with a virgin. Tell the three of them to get lost and go find someone who wants you for you, and not just to take your virginity from and then dump you.

Answer 4

Do NOT give in. You should wait for the perfect guy that makes it so much more special. All guys like that want is your pants and then they will not talk to you again. So if you really like them and want to be their friends don't give them any. They will not stay around if you give it to them.

Answer 5

You're obviously aggrevated with them so aggrevate them EVEN MORE by saying "NO!"

Answer 6

Don't do it. You WILL regret it. Don't listen to your "friends". Do what you want to do and you will have more respect for yourself and for others....and nothing to regret.

Answer 7

your friends are COMPLETELY wrong!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!. just say no. save it till you found the one you TRUELY love. and will always forever.