hey!
my boyfriend is acting weird all of a suden and i think he might be mad at me he's allways telling my friend bebe that he thinks i hate him 'cause i won't ever hangout with him and he says that if i did want to hangout with him i would have by now
and the reason that i can't is because i have a friend and she's really controlling and whenevr i get near him she gets mad and the reason that i don't stand up to her is because i'm afraid of what she'll do if i do!!!!!!!!!!!
so......
what do i do?????????????????????????
2007-02-21 11:04:48 · 11 answers · asked by killerqueen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whoever makes you happiest and who you have the most fun with is who you should spend time with. If friends are real friends, they'll get over it. If they dont, they dont deserve to be your friend.
On the other hand, your bf probably shouldnt go behind your back and talk to one of your other friends. You'll definately want to put a stop to that! Just talk to him about it (be nice, sweet and calm!!). Good luck!!!
2007-02-21 11:13:38 · answer #1 · answered by Embrisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she were truly your friend, she'd allow you to do what you want to do. Who is she to control your life? It's time for you to stand up to her. Start out being nice, and don't be stern unless you have to. It really shouldn't have to come to that. She knows you won't say anything, that's why she keeps doing it. But if you surprise her by standing up to her, she may not know how to react, and you will have the upper hand. Don't be afraid of her. It's YOUR LIFE!
2007-02-21 19:13:08 · answer #2 · answered by Hawkster 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them both to relax and explain your not ditching either of them. you just want to spread your time out with everyone. explain to your b/f that you really want to hang out and you will just as soon as you sort your friend out. then go to your friend and tell her she's not the boss of you and you can hang out with anyone you want. why are you letting he control you like that!? she isnt a good friend if she treats you like a piece of crap. but dont forget to keep in contact with both parties when your with the other person, a quick message never hurt anyone. or maybe even hang out as a group then do something with your b/f. good luck babe
2007-02-21 19:10:23 · answer #3 · answered by young, hot, and Aussie! (chick) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of the psycho girlfriend. She's not helping your social life. And tell people about her. She's no friend if she's controlling you and scares you. Hope this helps.
The Syko Ward
2007-02-21 19:09:43 · answer #4 · answered by The Syko Ward 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the worst your controlling friend can do? She can't control you, you have your rights. If you really like your bf you'll ask the friend to losen up (and if that doesn't work, lose her all together, she's not worth it)
2007-02-21 19:09:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she seems like a very bad friend. go with your boyfriend and tell her she has to accept that you have a bf and that you can split your time with both of them. if she doesnt then she's not worth havinf as a friend.
2007-02-21 19:08:08 · answer #6 · answered by foxy_chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to decide what you want - a boyfriend or a controlling girlfriend......it should be a no-brainer!
2007-02-21 19:13:25 · answer #7 · answered by normansbro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stand up to her. she desn't sound like a good friend....and you get to spend more time with your boyfriend.
2007-02-21 19:07:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
show some courage by standing up to her. she will respect you for it which she obviously doesn't currently.
2007-02-21 19:11:23 · answer #9 · answered by kicking_back 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't ever let anyone control you, who cares what they'll do, it's not your problem to deal with.
2007-02-21 19:09:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋