When he's ur friend at the start and suddely starts acting different with u.. like he tries not to look at u real hard, but looks at all ur other friends, only not at u. And then when u ignore him he starts getting either too happy (supposedly) or depressed. And when u know ur going somewhere he goes too. Oh but one thing which is what makes me doubt, he says he likes this other girl a lot but dosen't even look at her much either.
Who does HE LIKE?!?!?
I try to fake I don't like him at all cuz what if he dosen't like me and I scare him by flirting..
thanks! just wanna know ur opinion.
oxox.
2007-02-21 10:56:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh and by the way.. might it be that he's just confused of his feelings? he thinks he has to get butterflies when u fall in love.. is it true? or can u just love a person without feeling butterflies all the time? thanks!.
2007-02-21 10:58:16 · update #1
and plz I want 2 b SURE that he likes me first before I tell him cuz if I tell him and he dosen't it'll ruin our friends aura and we'll (I WON'T and maybe he won't either) never feel comfortable again.
2007-02-21 11:05:53 · update #2
and plz I want 2 b SURE that he likes me first before I tell him cuz if I tell him and he dosen't it'll ruin our friends aura and we'll (I WON'T and maybe he won't either) never feel comfortable again.
2007-02-21 11:05:56 · update #3
He probably is going through a phase where he does'nt know what he wants or if he wants a relationship but his should get out of this phase within a few weeks.
2007-02-21 11:19:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend at school who sounds alot like this guy you like. I know he likes this one girl but he seems to not talk with her much... actually barely at all, but he seems to talk to and about another of her friends as if he really likes her. But a few days ago he asked the girl he doesn't talk to much out to a movie and she said yes. It sounded like they had a great time in the end. So I think it depends on the guy. He obviously really liked the girl even though he may not have shown it. It seems to me guys including myself tend to get really shy when they like a girl and may not act like they really like her, probably because they feel like they'll make a fool of themselves if someone finds out he likes the girl and she doesn't like him back. I guess thats the turning point to start a relationship. Either the guy or girl needs to tell the other how they feel and open up to each other and put their feelings on the line or nothing will happen, and thats the hardest part in starting a relationship, and I know because I've regretted not telling some very important people to me how I felt about them, and I regret it all the time. So I'd suggest if this continues and he doesn't try to show you he likes you, then make some "subtle" hint that you like him. You know just start flirting and hanging around with him a bit more than normal. Show that your interested without just saying it right away. See how he reacts and then decide what you want to do. If you really like the guy which it seems like you do then it may take a while but over time try to show your interested in him and sooner or later you'll be able to tell if he feels the same way.
Hope that helped =)
2007-02-21 12:33:03 · answer #2 · answered by teh_masta_of_all 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think ur right with the confused part. he probably does like you if he tries to meet with you without u knowing, ya know what i mean? but when he looks at other girls, i would say thats the confused part. just be up front and ask.
2007-02-21 11:01:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like he likes you hun! Maybe you should test him and start flirting a little and see what his reaction is! Good luck!
2007-02-21 11:20:44 · answer #4 · answered by jkeys00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you should wait for him to figure you out. i think you should go straight up and tell him...in my question, i said he liked me before...at camp..you know why?. cause i TOLD him. and i think he liked me before that but then when i told him he said it. mkk. don't be afraid of what he'll sayy. and what he'll tell his friends if he doesn't like you. just be more confident. mkk.
2007-02-21 11:15:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should act like you like him..just to see if he acts the same or not...cuz if he likes you..and he finds out you like him...he would be super happy.
2007-02-21 11:00:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don't flirt with him, just don't do anything with him.
2007-02-21 11:51:44 · answer #7 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah im with her ^
2007-02-21 11:03:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋