i was dateing a man for nine months and broke up with him cause we were at different points in our life, but now he just want leave me alone. WHAT SHOULD I DO?
2007-02-21 10:41:27 · 18 answers · asked by chillysexxy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him to stop. If that doesn't work, get a restraining order against him. That should give him the message that you are serious. If he still persists, call the police to throw him in jail, as many times as it takes.
Carry mace.
2007-02-21 10:45:56 · answer #1 · answered by Martin Pedersen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you have to tell him in a very stern voice that it is over and to leave you alone. You probably have tried that and want soemthing else to do. When I don't want to be bothered with people that don't leave easliy I would suggest to avoid all their calls, have one of your good male friends leave your message on your voicemail, change your phone# if it's not that big of a deal, and if he ever comes to your house don't hesitate to call the police and start a paper trail with them so if the fool ever decides to get violent you have proof. That is the best LEGAL advise I can give you, I don't want to be responsible for anything crazy that just might happen. LOL
2007-02-21 10:52:23 · answer #2 · answered by CoCo Chanel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET A RESTRAINING ORDER. GO TO THE POLICE. Don't mess around with this, a guy that won't leave you alone after you've made it clear to him you want it over will do anything. If there's one thing I've learned from my job and some people in my family, it's not to let people run you scared. GO TO THE POLICE.
2007-02-21 10:47:36 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF and I say IF you are sure that is what is going on, then go to the POLICE and make out a report.... Stalking is against the law these days and you do not have to wait for him to harm you now..... He will be notified by the law to stay away from you and you may need to have a restaining order put out against him, that shows the police you are serious about keeping him away and it shows you are feeling threatend for you life, so if he keeps it up he will be picked up.... this is NOT something to play around with, stalkers are a dangerous breed of ppl....... God bless
2007-02-21 10:47:13 · answer #4 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 Words = Restraining Order
2007-02-21 10:48:51 · answer #5 · answered by Nicky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he won't leave you alone and you really don't want him near you because he threatens you or he did something to you then you can file a restraining order against him. If he is just plain anoying, then you will have to just call the cops if he is on your property. he may leave you no other choice.
2007-02-21 10:46:47 · answer #6 · answered by tisdale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a restraining order against him so wen he goes near u, u can call the police and he will get fined and have to go to court, which should put him off stalking u again
2007-02-21 10:48:53 · answer #7 · answered by sweet&spicy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Restraining order
2007-02-21 10:48:36 · answer #8 · answered by Got Curves? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the cops. get a restraining order
2007-02-21 10:45:31 · answer #9 · answered by dr_mctwitch 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
call the police and have them tell him to leave u alone.
2007-02-21 10:45:10 · answer #10 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋