Plain and simple. My moms a ***** who i so ******* vague with instucions i allways get into trouble. And to make it better, when ever i ask her to specify, she just tell's me "your smart arent you?". My grades suck. i have no scoial life, no support group. i dont know what to do anymore, i had an emotial break down the other day and just cryed for hours. I dont think a 15 year old should have to deal with this ****, and im scared im gonna become suicidal. What should i do.
2007-02-21 10:38:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
there are suicide hotlines in the phone book that you can call in an emergency for someone to talk to...do you have friends , family, school counselor, teacher, minister that you can talk to? sometimes it is hard to see solutions to your own problems when you get upset, but other people can see ways to help you out...
school counselors are a lonely bunch too...everyone's afraid to talk to them for fear of being labeled "crazy"...they really need to feel needed by someone asking for their help...
I am maybe not wording this as well as I could, but I hope my suggestions were of some help..
2007-02-21 10:55:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, it is normal at 15 to feel unsure of things. Just remember that this will get better. I know that it feels like no one knows how you feel and no one cares but that is not true.
Sometimes moms don't know how to deal with their own emotions let alone a teenager. Just know that she loves you and that maybe she just doesn't know what to do.
As for you; read some books, maybe check out a youth group at a local church. You will find that other kids feel the same way.
I promise that life gets better. Make good choices and keep asking questions. God Bless
2007-02-21 18:49:34 · answer #2 · answered by The Voice Of Reason 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its normal to feel a little fustrated at 15 years old. Its a good idea to start thinking about the things you have vs the things you don't have, and the things you are working toward getting .... Its ALL LIFE my friend....
Just think about it if you didn't have a place to sleep and eat right now..? where would you be ? There are some who don't have it and you do ..... Be thankful you have a Mother!
2007-02-21 19:02:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are a boy then realize that mothers do not always kno how we males think or feel. it does sound like she is not being very helpful with the "your smart,aren't you". maybe you better start looking for a scholl counselor or Somebody that you can speak to and or vent with. it's not that you hate life, i think, it's probably more like you hate Your life the way it's going Right Now. do not get hung up on Mom, start looking outside for help. like the 1-800 numbers for runaways, who can then give you a number that is more fitting to your needs. start trying to find ways to get your needs met son. do not get hung up on Mom. make good decisions. maybe try some Church. continue making good decisions One Day At A Time. May the God of all wisdom and love bless you heartily as you ask Him for guidance. In Jesus Name,Amen.
2007-02-21 19:09:02 · answer #4 · answered by Jerry_S. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I think you should try to find someone you can talk to. Is there a teacher that your feel comfortable with? An aunt or uncle? You shouldn't have to put up with any of that, and you really shouldn't have to go through this without anyone to confide in. Try to improve your relationship with your mother, but if that doesn't work, I think you should still find someone to confide in.
Good luck,
Kate
2007-02-21 18:49:45 · answer #5 · answered by Kate M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What got me through high school was thinking only 5 more years til I am old enough to be on my own and think about what your life as an adult can be like---your dreams, ambitions, goals, and where you see yourself in your 20's
2007-02-21 18:48:30 · answer #6 · answered by sapphire_630 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Buck up buddy. You are suffering a common teenage trouble in that your will, your teachers wills and your parents wills are in negative opposition.You are in an attitude of rebellion. You need to take steps to reestablish rapport. How long has it been since you told your mother you love her? How long has it been since you politely asked your teachers for help and clarification about an assignment and thanked them for their concern? You need to reach out lovingly to these people in an attitude of cooperation with their demands instead of all the time belligerently considering their requests an imposition. You say you have no support group; make an effort to turn them into and understand them as your support group! For that is what they are!
Understand they are not your enemies but have your best interests in mind when they ask you to do something. If you all the time argue with them about the need to do something their way or all the time sulk when asked to do something and procrastinate in doing it they are going to develop an attitude of "if you don't care, I don't care." toward you. Their support for you will become less and less. Their demands will become less insistent because you have shown you don't consider them important enoough to act on them.
It is all up to you to break out of this negative attitude toward them It's up to you to break the ice and get rapport started again. It is up to you to show that you do care so as to get them to care about you again. Try to anticipate what your mother is going to ask of you and do it before she asks. That is what she means by saying, "you are smart aren't you?" Try to look ahead and read ahead in your schoolwork so as to know beforehand what is expected of you instead of expecting them to give you explicit instructions about every little detail.
If you do these things, things will soon become easier and you will have more time to devote to your social life and outside interests. It s all about getting your mind in tune with theirs. RAPPORT!! And remember to tell them you love them and thank you! You will soon find, "life does not suck, life is a joy!
Peace and Love!
2007-02-21 20:05:05 · answer #7 · answered by Mad Mac 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call this number, it's very helpful: 1-800-SUICIDE
2007-02-21 18:52:11 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Get help.
2007-02-21 18:46:34 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋