I am ready to give up on love.......it always bites me in the butt.
Betrayal sucks. Is it better to be alone? Can trust exist ever again?
2007-02-21 10:35:00 · 3 answers · asked by sugarsweetsweetiepie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Been there done that.
I figured out that I tend to choose men with low self esteem because I am a caregiver. I like to rescue. I do it over and over again.
I have learned that I can't jump in to a relationship too quickly. And I know now what I can deal with and what I can't deal with.
I have also learned that people will let me down. I have to stand on my own before I can deal with someone else. Trust in my self is the first step. I have learned to be not so gullable.
I LET myself be betrayed. Now I am smarter and wiser.
I will trust again when a man shows me that he is trustworthy
2007-02-23 17:18:10 · answer #1 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to wait for the right person. I know how you feel, through my own personal experience I have been betrayed as well. It may also be the type of men you choose or are attracted to. If you closely look at it, can you see a pattern? Forgive yourself for letting them hurt you, heal yourself and move on from it. There's nothing you can do to change the past, and living with the pain will only hurt you more. Learn to love yourself and learn to love again.
2007-02-21 10:40:40 · answer #2 · answered by jeneration Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes don't give in there are some nice ones about still. Ihad the same problem with women so it looks like we both chose the wrong people and have to make sure we do not do that again.Everyone is different just hold onto until you are sure you have found a truly nice guy.
2007-02-21 10:40:18 · answer #3 · answered by Closed Down 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋