Three Days to GO!!!!?

Question

Three days until my wedding and Im a nervous wreck.. Not because im getting cold feet but because Im worried something major will go wrong. Any suggestions on how to calm my nervous and relax! Also any suggestions for the morning of teh big day would be appreciated. Thank you!

Answer 1

First of all, call all the contractors, verify the details and confirm times and places. Once you've done that, everything is out of your hands. Some things will go wrong. But just focus on the reason you are there. This is probably the most expensive party you'll ever have. So decide to enjoy it no matter what.

P.S. My limo had an accident on the way to pick me up. First of all, thank God it didn't happen AFTER it picked me up. I had to ride to the ceremony in the back of a van with my wedding cake being transported. It's those little quirks that make for the stories later!!!!

Answer 2

If you have planned well, and delegated well, than all you should have to do at this point is sit back and relax. I would make an effort over the next few days to do things you enjoy, that are relaxing. Go get a massage, get your nails done, get that pedicure. Anything but a facial would be fine at this point.

Suggestions for the morning of your big day, eat a good, nourishing breakfast, preferably high in protein and whole grains. Those will keep you satisfied longer than something like cereal with skim milk. Omlettes are great, just avoid onions and garlic--for obvious reasons!! Maybe take some wrapped string cheese sticks or fresh fruit in a cooler for before the ceremony or after when you're taking pictures. You'd be amazed at how slowly time will pass, and then how fast it will pass. Drink enough water, but no so much that you'll be running to the bathroom every 5 minutes. Don't overdo it on the alcohol either, and make sure you get enough sleep the night before.

If it were me, I would also have soothing music playing, nothing that's going to get you all excited and worked up...you'll be that way anyway. Just remember to relax and have fun!! Congrats on your marriage and best of luck to you!

Answer 3

First off I want to say congratulations and Best to you and your new hubby always.... OK first bit of advice would be stop thinking about and dwelling on what COULD go wrong because you will be expecting something to happen and it is going to ruin the most perfect day of your life so far...Think of all the positive things that will happen at your wedding and reception like seeing all the people you know and love and being able to share your special day with everyone... Don't was your wedding day on the what ifs because the what ifs usually never come. Instead focus on the FUN and the Honeymoon you are about to go on...Have a glass or two of wine and stay focused on the greatness of your day!!!

Answer 4

So exciting! All of us can tell you a hundred different things, but it wont work, you are going to worry about something. For me it was how all of these things would actually come together. No matter how much reassurance I got, it didnt help. The only advice I have is to really enjoy the moments, you unfortunately wont recall much of the next three days, but have a great time anyway. (People will recall things about my wedding and I have to ask my husband if they really happened!) Remember, the main thing is that when you take that dress off you will be Mrs __ (!) and thats the goal of the day, and no one wants to ruin anything for you!

Eat something the morning of, even if you dont feel like it. You wont eat very much throughout and you dont want to be sick with an upset stomach thats empty.

GOOD LUCK!!!!!!

Answer 5

On the morning of the wedding, have a glass of champagne or two. Just relax, because even if something goes wrong there is nothing you can really do about it. The most important thing is that you are marrying the person that you love. When you look back on it, that's what you will remember.

Answer 6

As long as you have made all the preparation, and confirmed them, you are done.

Now is the time to get manicures and pedicures and massages and don't drink the night before your wedding, no amount of make up will cover a late night up.

Relax, open presents that are here already and write thank you notes. Be spoiled and congratulations to you both. Don't be nervous, be happy, you are getting what you want.

Answer 7

First of all, stay the heck away from Answers and your computer. There are zillions of other things you should be doing!
With all of your careful planning, support of your family and friends, don't worry about a thing.... all will go well. You getting worried doesn't help anything...
Take time to talk with your mom, auntie, or sisters - whoever you have special in your life, before the wedding. Things will be different after and you won't have time.
Good luck and congrats!

Answer 8

My big day is still 4+ months off, and I've made up my mind to let it go. I mean, you've scrambled around for who knows how long, seeing to all the details, trying to make everything just perfect. On your wedding day, if things go wrong, there's nothing you can do about them, so you might as well enjoy the day. If you can let go like that, your mind will be much easier.

Congratulations.

I'm sure everything will be just fine.

Answer 9

Always remeber to relax at least three to four times in the day. Also to keep majors from happening carry the essentials, tissue, safety pins, band aids, tylenol, all the make up you are wearing for touch ups, extra stockings if wearing them, breath mints, lotion and try to carry around some of those scotch cleaning pads to prevent dress stains.Congrats!!!

Answer 10

Drink!!!!! Plus, if anything goes wrong who cares. It's your wedding and it's in 3 days. This is when you are supposed to start enjoying it. Have fun and know that if something goes wrong it's not going to ruin the day. The wedding will still go on and in the long run it won't even matter.