Just because someone is pretty or cute, doesn't mean so is their personality. Why should looks even matter? It's your personality. So what if someone is pretty, cute, hot, etc. Just because someone looks a certain way, doesn't mean they aren't boyfriend/girlfriend material.
2007-02-21 10:08:23 · 26 answers · asked by Tori 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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And I don't care if i'm pretty or ugly. I'd rather just be me.
2007-02-21 10:12:31 · update #1
Please don't sterotype people. How can you just know I have a self-esteem just because of the questions I ask or the answers I give. Grow up, will you? o.O
2007-02-21 10:14:39 · update #2
*Low self-esteem.
2007-02-21 10:15:23 · update #3
i know where you are coming from. it sucks when a guy only looks at the fact that that girl is hot or wow she has big boobs. it is so annoying.
2007-02-21 10:12:49 · answer #1 · answered by kelly s 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Why should looks matter? Looks are part of "attraction" and we humans tend to gravitate toward things we find attractive.
For some people looks do not matter. That's evident if you observe the world around you and see people you feel are very physically unattractive but are in relationships. Apparently their partner was able to look beyond the physical.
Humans are visual creatures...looks tend to catch our eye and from there we decide if we might want to get to know more about this person or not.
You are right, just because someone is pretty doesn't mean they have a nice personality...but it also doesn't mean they don't and it's human nature to gravitate toward that which we find pleasing to the eye.
Also remember that looks are subjective. You may think someone is gorgeous and the person next to you may think they are nothing special (to look at) at all.
There's nothing at all wrong with having an attractive appearance as part of your dating criteria...one would hope that's not the only thing on the list though.
2007-02-21 10:21:19 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look DOES remember! despite the fact that... look isn't all there is. i in my view care approximately character first, physique later, yet i visit confess that if somebody is basically undeniable gruesome, I basically should not be attracted. I somewhat have met a female online, we've been speaking for months, we've voice chatted, we've seen each and each others on the webcam.. she is eleven years older than me and weights 230 pounds (I weight a hundred and fifty five pounds). many human beings could probably discover her way too fat and unsightly, yet on a similar time as she is definitely fat, she is far from being gruesome, and he or she basically has a extraordinary character, and that i basically could no longer help yet fall for her. i think of the biggest situation is that folk basically frequently do no longer make an effort to get to correctly known each and each others. We see many questions right here that reflects basically how little human beings even comprehend from their very own companion or pals. So in a society the place human beings quite get to correctly known their lover, you could think of that many won't care to get to correctly known that person obtainable that doesn't greater healthy their attractiveness standards. human beings bypass on many opportunities to get to correctly known great human beings, basically by using fact they have "standards". Pitty.
2017-01-03 03:55:12 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me thats why its better to know someone on the internet or in a chat room first, you talk and hear so much about their personality and you fall in love with this person and when you finally see them in person nothing matters. I just downloaded messenger and logged on no later than 15 mins on that thing some guy IM me and we started talking he gave me his number and we meet up and ever since then he has been the most wonderful person that i have ever meet. and i know that this might sound a lil freak buy look at life it is freaky.
2007-02-21 10:23:42 · answer #4 · answered by kuhilanigurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately we live in a society that says beauty is being thin. I recently let someone i love judge me by my outsides. In a month a have gone down 5 paints sizes. He is away now and I am subconsciously holding a resentment. I am suppose to be getting married in August . I hope that i can forgive him for the hurt that he has caused . I never should him how much he traumatized me . I have vowed not to let any one insides judge me by my outsides. If you really love someone it should not matter how they look, where they are from. Just love them .
2007-02-21 10:30:49 · answer #5 · answered by Mimi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't always find the chick that's got the awesome personality then see what she looks like. With the exception of internet chat meetings. You see a person before you talk to them, or here their points of view. So if you are going to meet a person. All you've got to go on is, am I attracted to the way this person looks, walks, whatever. Sad but true.
2007-02-21 10:16:52 · answer #6 · answered by Solace 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first step is getting somebody's attention and looks are the best way to do that. After you realize you are physically attracted to someone then you have to find out if you are a match personality wise.
2007-02-21 10:11:54 · answer #7 · answered by DB 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well ideally, you want to be attracted in some way to your partner. Even if most of the attraction is to their intelligence or cooking or whatever, something about you should really "get inside" them to where they can't forget you... So, even if you're not super cute or gorgeous, I'm sure someone will love you for something. And trying to be positive and take care of yourself (makeup, fingernails painted, etc.) will make someone notice you more than oily hair and bad attitude...
2007-02-21 10:12:42 · answer #8 · answered by Just another opinion 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hmmm.. easy said then done. But yea, if u were to marry someone for their looks or whatever chances are he/she will not make a good husband/wife. It's OK when u're just bf and gf to go for looks but when u're older and u wanna settle down.. better to have both looks and personality,and would be a BONUS to have both.
2007-02-21 10:20:57 · answer #9 · answered by Ichigo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOOKS ARE THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IN LIFE.
There is nothing more important in life than looks.
Take me, for instance. I have a big nose, a skinny face, balding and a long neck. I have never had a girlfriend. I am still a virgin. I am 33 years old. I have no friends. Nobody likes me because of my ugly looks.
Looks are the most important thing in life. They will always be the most important thing in life. It doesn't matter if you have a great personality. If you are not pretty, hot, good-looking, then nobody will like you. Women like hot soap opera stud hunks. Guys like hotties.
It's true. I am living proof that if you are ugly like me, then nobody will ever like you.
2007-02-21 10:16:34 · answer #10 · answered by NJboy 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Looks like you have a low self-esteem or something. Looks do mean a lot, to those whose opinion doesn't matter.
What's most important are the opinions of the people who 'read between the lines'.
2007-02-21 10:13:15 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋