Okay my husband and I are really close. We have basically done everything together. Tonight we planned to have sex. I am old enough. What do I need to do to get prepared? I am still a virgin too and so is he. What stuff do we do? Please help me!!!
2007-02-21 10:06:44 · 15 answers · asked by YeahYeahdkfn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I got married a week ago but I have to go to Oklahoma for family problems
2007-02-21 10:10:38 · update #1
how can you be married and not have had sex?
2007-02-21 10:09:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something about this question does NOT make sense to me...... You use the words, husband, close, planned, sex, old enough, prepare and the word VIRGIN ? all in the same sentence ??? Unless you just got married in the past hour or so and it was an arranged marriage, WHY do you ask a bunch of strangers this ? and just what are you doing on this thing today of all days ?? Hmmmm, something just does NOT add up here....... God bless
PS. and might I suggest you take a quik trip to the library for a good book on the subject ?????????
2007-02-21 10:12:29 · answer #2 · answered by Annie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you drink, drink something strong like vodka, i advise absolut raspberry and mix with 7up, add a cherry. It never fails to warm nervousness and anxiety.
Stop apprehending where he wants to touch you. Be fluid. Stroke him as you want to be stroke. Show him how to be gentle. Don't be stiff, okay? RECIPROCATE!
I suggest that you spend a lot of time kissing, touching, fondling, acquainting each other with your pleasure zones, and be comfortable with each other.
If it feels awkward, what you do is to use dim lights, like just one lamp turned on, or better yet two scented candles (make sure it's away from flammable things, it can be a hassle when it causes accidents)
If it still is uncomfortable, turn off the lights, so youll see nothing, just feel everything, but of course that can spoil the "magical moment." Nothing beats seeing ecstacy-pain-desire all at the same time.
Okay when you come to the magical moment, when he enters, kiss him, or tell him to kiss you, so you dont really remember the pain, hmm.. or better yet brace yourself.
Sweet first time!
2007-02-21 10:22:13 · answer #3 · answered by SexyBelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been married. Usually, marriages are consumated on the wedding night. Have a look at some articles on Wikipedia, which explain sexual intercourse:
2007-02-21 10:13:02 · answer #4 · answered by darth_maul_8065 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put on some sexy lingerie, soft music and touch each other and be honest about how it feels, kiss each other all over again being honest about whether you like it or not and trust me honey nature will take it's course.
2007-02-21 10:13:36 · answer #5 · answered by Sista-Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time. Have him get you really arroused with lots of oral and fingers. Use some lubricant and have him go slowly and gently.
In a day or two he will be banging your brains out and you will be loving it!
2007-02-21 10:13:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do have fun.. go slow.. don't be embarrassed...learn from each other. Have a towel to put under you because there will be blood. Don't freak out....all women go through it.
2007-02-21 10:12:07 · answer #7 · answered by rhonda y 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two are in love you should not be scared. Making love is natural and beautiful joining of lovers.
Don't be afraid
2007-02-21 10:16:02 · answer #8 · answered by njanja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont know at this point then i suggest you search online or talk to an older couple or your parents --- its not difficult and generally if you give your bodies free rein it will all be ok --- take your time enjoy the feelings --- best wishes
2007-02-21 10:11:58 · answer #9 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long have u been married?
omg thats weird
just kiss
n foreplay
n make love
not sex
2007-02-21 10:09:32 · answer #10 · answered by meoi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's your husband? shouldn't you have had this done like...i don't know....the night you got married?
2007-02-21 10:10:10 · answer #11 · answered by *<dEzI>* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋