I am a very arrogant, pourd, egotistical guy. A lot of people have told me to be more down to earyn becasue I am a lovely guy at times but my self appreciation ruins it, but I find it hard to think of myself as regular.
My question is, what do women really want? A sweet guy, or an arrogant guy
Id rather not be arrogant but I dont have a choice, it is my natural personality but I wanna be cared for but I donnoit causes me problems
2007-02-21 10:04:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I aint necessarily talking looks, I jst mean everything
I wanna be as brilliant as possible, I am never happy a bit of a perfectionist, very intricate
I donno wtf is wrong with me man
2007-02-21 10:10:39 · update #1
Nice answer ramob boy thanks
I can be quite a funny humorous guy but I am also kinda narcissistic, it sucks
2007-02-21 10:20:51 · update #2
women....want to carry ur balls in their purses and keep them there until they decide they u need them.
2007-02-21 10:07:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is a difference between being "arrogant, proud, and egotistical" and being self-confident. The first is usually a bi-product of insecurities. Deep inside you don't REALLY think you are all that great so you verbalize how wonderful you are to help bring you up......not meaning YOU just meaning this type of person generally.
Also, there is nothing wrong with not thinking of yourself as regular. I am guessing that if people tell you that your "self-appreciation" ruins the good guy that you are......then you need
to tone it down. You can be self-confident and like yourself
without being "arrogant or egotistical". Arrogant and egotistical
really arent qualities to be admired.
You say you would rather "not be arrogant"......then don't.
People can change, but its up to YOU and ONLY YOU....
nobody else can do it for you.
Good luck.
2007-02-21 10:21:19 · answer #2 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
naturally a woman wants to feel that you understand her, as well faithfulness and love. you say that you're arrogant, could it just be that you're strong minded? if so you should let other people take charge of things a bit more and try not to be too critical of how people do things differently than you.be more in touch with how other people feel and don't dismiss them out of hand and at the very least develop a sense of humour that's a bit naughty, but not crude. it gives off a sense of wicked fun that can make women feel as though they are risk taking, but with the added security of a safety net for there feelings so they don't get hurt. always be yourself and if a woman doesn't like that, you were obviously not meant to be together. good luck i wish you well !!
2007-02-21 10:17:10 · answer #3 · answered by price 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually this question was asked by a king to the wisest man in the city long ago. The wisest man had committed a crime and the king gave him the option to find the answer "what does a woman really want" or he would be put to death at the end of the year. Well he searched high and low and finally had to barter with a witch who knew the answer in order to save his life. The answer..... to do what she wants to.........
The answer to your question is to love yourself and remember to be sweet and that your not perfect anytime.
2007-02-21 10:21:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find a happy medium. Confidence is great, arrogance, notsomuch. And if you feel an arrogant moment coming on, like "wow I am SO hot" then try to play it up as a joke. My husband always tells me, jokingly, that he is so sexy or whatever, and I think he is, but he's just joking around...
2007-02-21 10:08:54 · answer #5 · answered by Just another opinion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women want sweet guys because if any guy was arrogant around or to me he would get a shot in the head.
2007-02-21 10:07:51 · answer #6 · answered by tush 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All a lady needs is love from a tender caring guy. You cant believe it some women prefer arrogant men who show concern for them when it really matters.
2007-02-21 10:12:43 · answer #7 · answered by Aushbaba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok here I go! I myself love a man who knows himself, and respects himself, hard worker who plays hard, but this arrogantness means you might just be alittle narsisant. Conseedenis inst attractive at all! Yes be confident, but be loveing by nature tap into that.
2007-02-21 10:15:06 · answer #8 · answered by samantha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don`t like or want arrogance. Confidence and assertiveness are good, with the sweetness and easy going bit thrown in.
2007-02-21 10:11:25 · answer #9 · answered by The BudMiester 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think arrogance can be attractive at first but there needs to be more underneath it to keep my attention ! Also if you keep up that persona you wont reap the rewards of showing your gentler side which most women like !
2007-02-21 10:30:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women like confidence. Arrogance isn't confidence. It is a sign of compensating for low self-image.
2007-02-21 10:07:23 · answer #11 · answered by Martin Pedersen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋