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Hey guys. I really need your help. Basically i told a girl that i like about 3 month ago. She told that she doesnt feel the same way. Later on i wrote her an email, telling her that everything is ok now, and im over her. (I still like her to tell the truth)
Then i waited some weeks and asked her out. She told that its diffiult at the moment, cos of her exams. BUT SHE TOLD THAT WE ARE GONNA MANAGE TO MEET UP.
Then some weeks later i got a mail with good wishes for Christmas. A week later good wishes for the New Year. Im a gentleman, so i replied. haha.
One moth ago i wrote her an email, just asking how shes doing and how her exams are going.(No indication of meeting up) I got no reply. Last saturday i wrote her again. Basically a different mail, but with the same meaning. I got no reply... I KNOW SHE READ IT. 100%. Cos we communicate through a website similar to facebook, and she replied to others.
Why is she ignoring me now? I really need your help guys, cos its really important for m

2007-02-21 09:48:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

Thanks for the answers guys...
Well, i dont think she will think im a stalker...i dont write her everyday, not even every week!
I forgot to mention that we saw each other once two times in person.

2007-02-21 13:18:23 · update #1

7 answers

Judging from what you've told us it sounds like you've got it bad. If she's not responding to your emails but she's reading them anyway, either she is sitting back laughing at you, or she's mad at you for saying that you were over her; while your still emailing her. The writing is on the wall, stop playing yourself for her, evidently it sounds like she's moved on. Mentally you have to do the same thing, or you'll drive yourself crazy. Cut her loose, don't email her anymore, and definitely stop thinking about her.

2007-02-21 10:08:59 · answer #1 · answered by 00silky 4 · 0 0

Understand something, she has been trying to remain civil. She sends holiday greetings to be polite. She does not have any interest in dating you. She has made this clear. You are very fond of her, she is not fond of you, but she doesn't dislike you, at least not yet, but keep hounding her in email and she will. Look, it happens this way sometimes. Please respect her and back off. The last thing you need to do is to come off like some email stalker. There isn't going to be a relationship here. You will be all right, but with someone else. Focus on finding a new and healthy relationship with someone who returns your feelings. Good luck.

2007-02-21 09:56:12 · answer #2 · answered by teacupn 6 · 0 0

I wish i knew why she would be ignoring you, Maybe she doesn't have time to write you back or in all she just checks her myspace or whatever and she forgets to write, or to be brutally honest, she may not like you. it could be a number of reasons, and you may never know why. I would say move on and find a better pen pal. Don't waste your time on someone with no decency if that is the case. Let her come to you if she wants to talk.

2007-02-21 09:55:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

you're able to attempt to strike up a communication via fact she sounded into you till u sorta dissed her. And in case you have been thinking approximately her for seven months then that is approximately time u flow after her. a minimum of you would understand you took the prospect.

2016-11-24 22:38:09 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

It sounds like she isn't interested. You're probably just freaking her out with all of these letters. Don't be the stalker. Just let it go no matter how hard it may seem. It will be better for you and her.

2007-02-21 09:51:49 · answer #5 · answered by Dreamer7787 4 · 0 0

she's not interested and the manage to meet up was just a polite blow off hoping you'd leave her alone. best thing is to just leave her and move on.
otherwise you start looking like a stalker

2007-02-21 09:55:27 · answer #6 · answered by randini692000 3 · 0 0

well she might not like u the way u like her! but keep it up! don't hide Ur feeling's! lol ;east u can get is Ur soup bone wet from sympathy! lmao that's not rape ROFL. making joke's but stay true 2 u!she won't ignore u 4ever. she will have 2 explain her position . which mean's u may not get any sypathy . but stay strong brother

2007-02-21 10:03:57 · answer #7 · answered by sitting_in_th3_cut 2 · 0 0

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