My sister is 14 years of age and her cousin is 12 years of age. My sister is currently in a really long relationship while her little cousin is just moving around. My sister have tried to explain to her that messing around with people that or 3-5 years older then you only want one thing. Her cousin yells at her grandmother when she tries to tell her things(right from wrong) My sister was crying earlier today because she thinks she will get in trouble for not telling her parents about her little cousin behavior. I just need to know how can we get her to understand to stick to boys within her own age group?
2007-02-21 09:43:08 · 10 answers · asked by Me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Why is your sister only 14 but in a long relationship? and why is your cousin only 12and dating? They have a lot of time to frow up. Sounds like there is some emotional problems that are running deep in the family. I would focus on that and the kids good behavior will follow.
2007-02-21 09:50:31 · answer #1 · answered by nicoleblingy2003 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think that for a 14 year old to be in any long relationship is bad first of all. second the 12 year old just wants to be like that to and feel inportant and u know in with the crowd and **** so i think the 14 year old is not putting on a very good example and the 12 year old just needs to get the **** kicked out of him
2007-02-21 10:12:50 · answer #2 · answered by hardrock2524 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is your sister's cousin, wouldn't that make her your cousin too? Unless she is your half sisfer. But anywho, your sister doesn't have a right to tell anyone else how to live, she should pay attention to her own life.
2007-02-21 10:00:45 · answer #3 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell her that she is not a kid anymore, she is a teenager unlike her little cousin and that one day he will grow up
2007-02-21 09:47:13 · answer #4 · answered by KT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell your uncle about what their child is doing, in NO WAY should anyone yell at their Grandparents, for telling them what to do.
2007-02-21 09:48:03 · answer #5 · answered by bek 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can not live her life for her .You have told her ,that is all you can do .Just expect her to land hard in the future and probably with child .Sorry .
2007-02-21 09:51:33 · answer #6 · answered by Elaine814 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well one if she is still doing this in acouple years the guys could be charged with statutory rape!! and uhh not to mention she would be labled as a slut!!
2007-02-21 09:46:58 · answer #7 · answered by cami s 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Take her for spiritual counselling, what ever is impossible to man is possible to God.
2007-02-21 09:47:47 · answer #8 · answered by joey 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She might find out the hard way.
2007-02-21 09:45:54 · answer #9 · answered by dancerchickchic 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
let her do her own thing if something happens she will learn!!!
2007-02-21 09:47:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋