I got diagnosed with HPV afterI noticed a skin-tag on the outside of my genitals. HPV can be spread from skin-to-skin contact and my gyno said 90% of people have or will have it at least once. I have the kind that causes harmless little warts that hardly break out and can be treated with creams or painless treatments at clinics. I never had warts until 7 months into the relationship. He once mentioned he NEVER has had unprotected sex. I mentioned I had unprotected sex w/ my ex. AND I had got tested a year after our break-up and I was negative for all stds. The only test i never took was a stinkin HPV. Now I do not know who gave it to who. I need to tell him and I do not know what to say. It could be either of our faults. I just want us to get through this and for him not to hate me. We love eacother and have had an awesome, mature, and trusting relationship. Will he see me as a disgusting person now? Will he not enjoy sex? The virus sometimes washes out of your system after 1 yr.
2007-02-21 09:42:23 · 9 answers · asked by vada 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him. The whole thing we've been stressing for the last twenty years,is sexual responsibility,and part of that,is admitting,who you've been sexually active and irresponsible with. He may break up with you,but at least you know,and he can be informed,and get treated also. Don't do it,and I believe in a little thing called Karma...good luck
2007-02-21 09:49:43 · answer #1 · answered by Ellie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. That's a tough situation. I'm sorry! :(
You have to tell him, I'm sure you know. It will be hard, but that's the only way. If you all have a mature relationship like you said, then you should be fine.
It will be a little scary for him though, so give him space! :)
Best of luck.
2007-02-21 09:49:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to tell him right away so he can get tested. Secondly, if he leaves you because of it, then he wasn't really a good boyfriend anyway. It's better to find that out now before you invest any more time. Hopefully he'll be supportive and understanding.
2007-02-21 09:49:01 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to tell him. this is about health, its a serious issue. and i think sex should be the last thing on ur mind when u got this to deal with. if he finds out that u aint telling him coz of sex thats when he will hate you. dont waste anytime, tell him
2007-02-21 09:52:05 · answer #4 · answered by ~Mevsim~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must tell him if only to maintain your relationship --- he should be able to sit down and talk it through with you --- best wishes
no i would not leave --- you just need to take precautions until the virus is completely gone
2007-02-21 09:51:37 · answer #5 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a lot to lay on a bf all of a sudden.
If he loves you, you two will be able to work it out.
2007-02-21 09:49:30 · answer #6 · answered by Mr R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love each something this small wont come between you two guy. You need to keep honesty.
2007-02-21 09:57:12 · answer #7 · answered by kuhilanigurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
na if i loved you i would want u to tell me!
2007-02-21 09:47:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yikes!
2007-02-21 09:46:43 · answer #9 · answered by mike Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋