The reason why I ask is all the girls in my class has made out and I wanting my first kiss to be special I don't know what to choose to be with the makeout gang or not.
2007-02-21 09:41:33 · 21 answers · asked by Cori S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you don't need to follow them. be a leader not a follower. you might get flack for wanting to wait, but it will be worth it, and you will be glad you did, while they may end up with regrets.
so, be strong, focus on your studies and wait till you're at least 20.
2007-02-21 09:47:18 · answer #1 · answered by realstylesint'l 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't rush, i am 13 and had my first iss 3 days ago, i didn't rush it and look, my first kiss, it wasn't all ewwie and makeout thing but it was special and sweet, the things you would read in a love story, or see i a movie. i think that it is good to kiss someone between the age of 13-15 (only in a positive way) because it builds you up and is a special experience. BUT DONT RUSH IT.
2007-02-21 20:22:37 · answer #2 · answered by Lexi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you join the makeout gang, then your first kiss won't be anything special. Wait for the right person and time because if you don't, I think you'll regret it.
2007-02-21 17:46:24 · answer #3 · answered by RidiculousTallness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it when you want. I kissed one person in High School and it is still special, after that there have only been a handful of people, the second guy I met in college and dated ever ended up being my husband. Do what you feel comfortable and safe with and you'll end up happy and not end up regretting it down the line. It's tough to hear but those years of your life will quickly fade away.
2007-02-21 17:51:20 · answer #4 · answered by LeeAnn R 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, its not good. dont hang w the makeout gang. wait for your first kiss to be w someone special, someone you choose to kiss.
let things like that happen naturally, it much more fun this way! wait.
2007-02-21 17:46:41 · answer #5 · answered by dear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes your first kiss should be very special it is one that you will remeber for the rest of your life, don't do it just because your friends are. Kisses are a individual's choice not a group decision. Peer pressure is hard but it sounds like you are on the right track good luck and god bless
2007-02-21 17:45:41 · answer #6 · answered by chiefs fan 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't go with the "gang"/"crowd", Wait till you think YOU are ready for this..the only thing is don't go beyond that "kiss"...It's safer and best for your wellbeing as an individual as far as how you feel about yourself. You can make out/have fun..just don't let the guy talk you into going further..you will feel bad and he will most likely BRAG about it...if you do go FURTHER....Stay true to yourself!!!!!! You have many years ahead of you to decide on these things..Just control your urges and hormones..Good Luck!!!!!
2007-02-21 17:50:41 · answer #7 · answered by kiya12bc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart and do what you want. Not just b/c people in the "gang" are doing it. Your first kiss is a specail moment in time.. It's one of those freeze frames you hear about.. make yours count... you'll regret it if you don't... and if you do... you'll always remember your first time was with someone worth remembering.. on top of all that don't just follow the crowd... it's just crazy....
2007-02-21 18:12:45 · answer #8 · answered by sweetheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do it just because all of your friends are doing it...how special would that be? The make out gang end up BECOMMING THE PREGNANT GANG. you are too young.... Once you loose it, you can never get it back. Think about that!!
2007-02-21 17:48:37 · answer #9 · answered by Ms Kamm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't just make out with someone you don't care about If you want that frist kiss to be special start it with that kid youve been admiring take the first move at a party. Don't do something stupid just cuz everyone made out with someone. They are all probablly wh***s i did stars cuz didn't know if i was aloud to say it, smooches good luz and take it slow
2007-02-21 17:47:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm in the 11th grade and ill tell u girls that i know that have not even had there first kiss seem inisent and stuff and guys like that but i think it is good to get experience but yea so ill let u figure that one out but i just thought i would give u some advice
2007-02-21 18:08:41 · answer #11 · answered by hardrock2524 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋