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Okay I'm going to kiss my boyfriend in a few days but i have no idea how to tounge kiss can someone give me the steps of how to kiss.

2007-02-21 09:27:14 · 25 answers · asked by ~~~baby boo 4 life~~~~~~~~a.k.a 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Okay hun the advice I have for you is...............JUST CHILL. This kinda thing seems to just come naturally. The first time I frenched my boyfriend it was like magic, of course, but I was afraid that I was going to mess it all up. turns out I had nothing to be afraid of because it was his first kiss ever, just like me. It seemed to just come naturally to both of us and the tension seemed to ease after that first kiss. Don't sweat it, once he places his arms around you and ya'll get into the moment it's just come to you, and then you'll be like "Wow, I didn't know my lips could do that!" It's an amazing feeling that you totally don't want to ruin by trying to learn the dynamics of frenchin.

2007-02-21 09:33:35 · answer #1 · answered by noella. 2 · 0 0

Nobody can really tell you how to do this. Each person does this type of kissing in their own way. Just don't slobber all over each other. If you are going to kiss your boyfriend in a few days, it sounds as if you are going to kiss him for the first time. Why would you want to start out with your first kiss with him being a french kiss? Why not just a normal kiss on the lips? Then you could part your mouth and go from there when you both feel comfortable. You will know what to do when you both start to do it. It's kind of an individual thing. Being intimate with someone, however much or little one is intimate, is a personal and private thing. There is no instruction manual (well there are some, but you know what I mean) for these things. It isn't meant to be some mechanical thing that you have to have others tell you how to do. Just relax and let things happen as they do. Life is the best teacher. Now if you want some instruction on LIFE, then beware of being physically intimate at too young of an age. Kids today are in such a hurry to grow up, but once you do, you can never ever be a kid again. I am 45 and would give anything at times to go back and be a kid again. I would just relax and enjoy your youth without trying to be in a hurry to grow up. It will happen soon enough.

2007-02-21 17:33:48 · answer #2 · answered by Chimichanga to go please!! 6 · 1 0

1. Lean towards each other.
2. Tilt head.
3. Put lips together.
4. Open mouth.
5. Move tongue around.

Sorry to sound so facetious--but it really isn't as complicated as it sounds. I didn't kiss anyone until just a few months ago (I'm 18) and my boyfriend never pressured me to kiss him. When I told him that I was nervous about kissing because I had never done that before and didn't want to mess up, he said not to worry because it comes natural. I'm giving you the same advice--don't worry about it, kissing really does come natural. It is like an innate skill or something. I didn't have a clue how to kiss someone, and now my boyfriend tells me that I am a good kisser. Another bit of advice--don't try to plan it out too much in advance. Sometimes the sweetest moments are spontaneous. When my boyfriend kissed me for the first time, it wasn't planned and I will never forget it!

2007-02-21 17:34:31 · answer #3 · answered by completenerd 2 · 1 0

ok.. well u've probly heard this before but its the truth... let the guy stick his tounge in ur mouth first. when u first start kissing him u probly won't be sure on what to do but just let ur boyfriend take control. it always helps when the guy at least acts like he knows what he's doing. when he sticks his tounge in there just be really easy n gentle. try not to shove ur tounge into his mouth and just be gentle. don't bite his tounge cuz that like really hurts lol... but just go with ur instincits. there really isn't a right or wrong way to kiss. do what u think is right and don't think so much when ur kissing. Hope that i've helped!! and if u would like some more tips there is this website called girlslife.com ... its a magazine and it gives awesome tips n tells u what not to do n all that good stuff! just go to the column "best of GL" and go down to .. "Ready, Set, Kiss!" it helps and i hope i've helped!

2007-02-21 17:36:57 · answer #4 · answered by *~!Belle!~* 1 · 0 0

Funny you should ask and even more so since it seems planned. That doesn't usually happen. Kissing isn't really a planned thing. It just happens. When the moment is right, it just works. As for the steps, its kind of hard to explain...first, it should be what you both want...not just one wanting to please the other, you know? When he leans in, lean forward and receive it...let it go smoothly first, it should be soft, and then take it to whatever level you want. For example, tonguing or biting or whatever! Don't slobber all over him or try to devour his entire face...unless he asks you to. Usually that's gross. Let him push his tongue in first and then use your tongue to "dance" with his...turn to the side, or at an angle to get more comfortable. Take a breath when you need to. It's not that hard. Sometimes people worry too much that they are going to suck, when in reality it's not that big of a deal.

2007-02-21 17:37:57 · answer #5 · answered by bL@(kR0s3 2 · 1 0

Due to the risk of great injury, one should only tounge on a lounge, but this has nothing to do with kissing.

2007-02-21 17:33:04 · answer #6 · answered by Finnegan 7 · 0 0

Are you serious here? There is nothing to say about it. When you are ready, just kiss him. If he knows how to kiss, he will guide you, don’t worry. If not, then you two just need to follow a little bit your own instincts. Trust me.

Just start with lips, and just use your tongue to start “feeling” his lips, and so on. You won’t even realize it and you will be with your tongue inside his mouth in no time, and vice versa.

I didn’t need a guide the first time, and believe me, we kissed forever that day. LOL. I think we all are pros when it comes to kiss.

Have fun… kissing!

2007-02-21 17:33:23 · answer #7 · answered by Dan D 5 · 0 0

I have no idea. I would NEVER kiss a tounge.

2007-02-21 17:30:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

ok u like.. while ur kissing just put ur tounge in his mouth.... uhh its not something u cann explain.. u know how to.. everyone does.. but u just dont know cuz u have never done it b4.

2007-02-22 20:51:01 · answer #9 · answered by Archie ♥ 6 · 0 0

Just use your tounge. If you don't know how to do it, maybe you should not even do it.

2007-02-21 17:29:47 · answer #10 · answered by Tori 3 · 1 0

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