If you were in love with someone, but you currently have a b/f would you leave your b/f for this new guy?
Problems:
The b/f is the most wonderful, loveliest person who has never done anything wrong, cares and loves for me deeply and does not deserve anything bad...
New guy im in love with has numerous things wrong with him, including the fact that we argue a lot, and my family dont like him that much, but at the same time, is quite lovely and i think im falling for him....(he has already declared him love for me) By the way, this new guy is my best friend, ive been a close friend of his for a year and a half. He believes that we can work with the relationship and make it into something very special because we seem to get along despite all these meaningless tiffs. Plus, he isnt encouraging me to break up or cheat, he just wanted to let me know how he feels....and now im having doubts myself.
What would you do?
2007-02-21 09:23:59 · 16 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Duh - stay with your current boyfriend. The new guy is gonna hit it and quit it.
2007-02-21 09:26:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
The grass is always greenier on the other side or so its said what appeals to you about this other guy do you feel bored in your current relationship and just want to have some fun because you may leave your perfectly nice bf for this jerk and wind up regretting it once the trhill of the chase is over. If i were you i would try spicing things up in my current relationship and really thinking what is best for you in the long run but if you are not in love or happy with your current bf there is no point in stringing him along allow him to move on and find someone who will return his affections.
2016-05-24 04:17:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your b/f is a good man then you shouldn't be messing around on him in the first place. Did you ever stop to think that the new guy might be trying to screw something good up and when the new b/f leaves then what do you have. Nothing. I say get rid of the the new and say with the old if he makes you happy.
2007-02-21 09:32:46 · answer #3 · answered by Cindy R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by tellin u how he feels, he is puttin subtle pressure on u to break up with ur current bf or cheat. if the tiffs are meaningless, why have them? just a waste of energy.
i say stick with ur bf. he is wonderful, lovely and loves u deeply. what else do u want? we women always seem to go for the guy who treats us badly, isn't it? stay best friends with new guy. if u leave bf for him, its a big risk and u may end up hurtin and u would have lost a friend and a wonderful bf.
2007-02-21 09:31:47 · answer #4 · answered by rambo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your guy is the most wonderful, loveliest person who has never done anything wrong, cares and loves for me deeply and does not deserve anything bad... why would you leave him for some loser who is going to use you
2007-02-21 09:29:22 · answer #5 · answered by sexy_hamster103 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a toughie!!!! i dont envy you at all lol!
its not fair to stay with your b/f if your thinking of another boy, but at the same time you could dump him and discover it was the biggest mistake ever!! maybe this is just a crush with the other lad, maybe your a bit bored in your relationship thats why its led you to look at other options? or do what i did sit down with pen and paper and write a pro's and cons list haha! no seriously look deeply at both of them, your heart will tell you what it wants.
you dont want to pass up an oportunity and always wonder what if??
Good luck hunn
xx
2007-02-21 09:32:46 · answer #6 · answered by Izzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is playing a game with you,be very careful not to fall for his emotional toying with you. There is something missing from your other relationship and it sounds like"excitement", why not put some in and save yourself a lot of heartache
2007-02-21 10:12:33 · answer #7 · answered by hogasnog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends if you feel this way often or not I was with my boyfriend for 5 years about to start planning our wedding but i found myself wondering what it would be like single or if i was with this man etc. if you really love him and want to be with him there would be no doubt that you want him and only him it doesn't matter how well he treats you or how handsome he is it's all about what you are ready for and what your not ready for. if you really feel that you want to be single and date other men then you owe it to yourself and him to let the relationship go. who knows maybe in a few years you'll find each other again and be ready to fully commit yourself to him.
2007-02-21 10:01:19 · answer #8 · answered by Brookelyn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thing is the new man will give you sh1t all the time he will treat you like a door mat cheat on you beat you then one day walk out on you and leave you holding the baby
I SAY GO FOR IT BECAUSE THAT IS THE TYPE YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO
2007-02-21 09:49:31 · answer #9 · answered by top cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is bad boy (like me) u just like the thought it will be a match relationship this means it will burn out after a few months it will never last and you prbly want him even more coz people tell you not to and all want what we cant have (i know i do)
2007-02-21 09:43:09 · answer #10 · answered by kezz247 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay with ur bf...if u r already arguing wit the new guy y take it farther...If your happy now and have a great bf like u say u do stay with him...
2007-02-21 09:31:15 · answer #11 · answered by sexylezbian956 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋