ok my best friend likes this boy i like and the boy likes me too. Sometimes we flirt but my best friend just told me that she likes him. Now she wants me to hook them up. I like the boy a lot and so deos my best friend. what should i do hook them up or wat?
2007-02-21 09:22:27 · 17 answers · asked by alissa_ajo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes hook them both up.....IN A BUTCHER'S SHOP
2007-02-21 09:26:32 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell to the NO u don't hook them up, why would u do that so that u can go home crying everynight how u should be her and that u should be in his arms not ur friend..
u need to let ur friend know the deal.. let her know that u have a crush on him to and that neither of u should step on each others toes because that will ruin ur friendship.... now if she ain't feeling him then by all means see if he's interested in u but if she is feeling him then u need to fall back as well cause ur friendship should be more important then some crush.....
there are plenty of boys out there that u and ur friend don't have to share or go after.....
2007-02-21 17:27:59 · answer #2 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that you should tell her that you too like him and that you think that he likes you back because he has already flirted with you. You'd best tell her this right now before anybody goes out with anybody or she will accuse you of going out with somebody she wanted just to get her mad. On the other hand she will get mad at you if you get asked by him and say yes. So you'd best come right out and let her know what you think is going on and what you feel or you will probably lose a good friend. It won't be easy but you should just tell her that he has already been flirting with you and that you don't think you can hook her up cause he will probably end up talking to you instead of wanting her. Bottom line.....I dont think you should hook them up. What happens happens.
2007-02-21 17:36:43 · answer #3 · answered by Me2 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this is hard: but still let me try to help. You like the guy he likes you. your best friend likes him but you don't know if he likes her. Any ways well it is kind of like this you have to tell your best friend after you ask the guy if and when he says yes. well it would be easier to tell your friend that you to are all ready going out. well if you think that is rude and you tell your friend every thing then you can well hook them up but belive me it is not something that would last. I mean it is really the right thing to do but well, I am going to asure you you will loss both your bf and the guy as well.cause if he likes you he is going to tell her and he is going to come after you which I am sure your friend would be saying you stabed her at the back. So I suggest that you ask the guy.
2007-02-21 17:32:29 · answer #4 · answered by abeshawiwe!! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well sounds like you really do need help.if you havent told your friend that you really like the boy that she likes than tell her and see were it goes from there but if you have told your friend than just think what your friends reaction is when you hook up with him and if she is really mad at you than talk to her.if that dosent work break up with the guy!should a guy come between friends in your life or do friends come first?!
2007-02-21 17:30:36 · answer #5 · answered by volley ball champ1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First thing, if you know the boy likes you and you like him back, dont get your friend up in the mix. I wouldn't do anything. The worst thing is to see the boy you like going out with your friend. It's also bad to go out with the boy and see your friend crushed and angry at you for going out with her crush. I would stay out of it and wait to see what happens next.
2007-02-21 17:26:24 · answer #6 · answered by soccergod7 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you're best friend is going after the guy who was after you first, just tell her that you and this guy might have something and so you'd rather she back off. In all honesty, you were there first, sounds childish and bitchy, but hey, it's not really, just be honest with her, if she's a friend worth having, she'll understand
2007-02-21 17:26:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Good lord girl. Take your best friend over the guy anytime. It is DEFINATELY not worth sacrificing a girlfriend for a guy. If the guy does indeed like you and your best friend makes her move, then he will simply turn her down. THEN you make your move. If she gets bent and twisted about being turned down and he chooses to go out with you well hey... She needs to learn to build bridges and get over it. And she will.
2007-02-21 17:27:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Does your friend know you like him?If she does I'd say don't let a guy get btwn your friendship if she doesnt I'd say let her have him you may find someone who isn't someone your just crushing on but someone who you really like.And who knows he maybe just flirting with you but wanting someone else.
2007-02-21 17:28:04 · answer #9 · answered by @ _ease_wit_lyfe 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just explain to your best friend that you and this guy have been talkin and that he likes you and you like him. If she is really ur best friend she will understand.
2007-02-21 17:27:30 · answer #10 · answered by Ladie1965 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋