what do I say to him I REALLY REALLY love him i'm getting out of highschool soon
2007-02-21 09:15:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first he text messeged me and said will u marry me and said I will die for you plz
2007-02-21 09:29:56 · update #1
You said that you really really love him but you aren't ready to move in? He wants to marry you and spend the rest of his life with you and you aren't ready to move in with him? Do you really love him? You need to think about if you can see yourself with him for the rest of your life. Marriage is meant to be forever. If you can then yes it is scary but in the long run it is worth it if you love him and want to be with him forever.
2007-02-21 09:24:26 · answer #1 · answered by Hawaiisweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at the starting up... a textual content message? No female should be proposed that way. How lengthy have you ever been relationship? How previous is he? in case you dont pick to get married then flat out tell him you're not to any extent further waiting for this. you in effortless words advised him you're not to any extent further waiting to pass in then how interior the hell are you going to be ready to be engaged. He in simple terms has dumb good judgment. per chance he's scared you'll depart him once you pass off to school. i comprehend my boyfriend became. tell him if he truly loves you - a lot that he proposed - then he will love you adequate to attend.
2016-12-04 11:38:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're still young and there is no reason why you should rush into something as serious as marriage. Experience life and all the treasures it holds for you. Trust me you might think you love him now, but as time goes by; you grow up and your mind begins to develop and think differently and the both of you might not get along in the long run. If you agree to something your not ready for then you'll just regret it later. If he truly loves you then he'd understand and not pressure you into anything you don't wanna do!
Good Luck
2007-02-21 09:24:22 · answer #3 · answered by Amy ;) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him how you really feel. If he does not accept that then he does not really love you. If it is true love then it can wait. My husband and I were engaged for 3 years. During 2 of the years I was 2000 miles away in the military. It was true love because we waited until each of us were ready. Now y'all can get engaged like I did and wait until you are ready or just tell him that things are moving to fast and that y'all have not experienced life yet. Time will only tale.
2007-02-21 09:20:59 · answer #4 · answered by lil_sis458 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell him what you just told us. You are a smart cookie, don't give in. You have a lot going for you and you are too young. I am proud of you for saying no. That takes courage and character. Plus he seems to just want to control you and have you because he is a little insecure.
2007-02-21 09:19:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What!!! girl I would take it slow....Your to young to marry. Please you might regret it later....If I were you I would just sit down with him and tell him how you feel about this whole marriage thing. Good LUCK!!
2007-02-21 09:32:54 · answer #6 · answered by Barrelracergirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said you weren't ready to move in and he came back by asking you to marry him?
Please, if you're not ready, don't do it...
2007-02-21 09:18:45 · answer #7 · answered by greecevaca 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋