how is it to lose ur verginity?

Question

i know its stupid but i need to know.i'm going to b 17 but i'm a virgin still.
we r madly in love and i plan on losing my verginity soon.
can anyone please help by telling me how it feels to b doing "it" for the first time?i mean does it hurt or bleed alot?is it painful or very painful.i would really appreciate it if anyone can fill me in wid the complete description

well,i'm not THAT young.i've read aal abt the various methods of protection and i've thought alot abt it too.its not the random idea of a twelwe year old.but i've never discussed wid anyone abt how it would feel to b doing it,maybe i'm not that outspoken,thanx for the help by the way.i already know the basic facts[who wouldnt after doing a-level in biology] but i had to ask someone.i do agree that some ppl pretend to b false and misleading but all the same,some ppl R a bit helpful.i was just trying to get those ones.

Answer 1

Um, if you are too young to know how to spell virginity correctly (not verginity), then you are probably too young to lose it.

Answer 2

yes it hurts, it hurts like CRAZY! but if you're with a guy as sweet as i was, he will be understanding and gentle. it only hurts for a little while (the entire 1st time depending on how long you can stand it, i think had i been able to go on longer the 1st time, it would have stopped hurting, but my guy was so sweet, he stopped), then the 2nd time and so on, stop hurting. i think that some girls dont hurt AS MUCH as others, but i do believe that it hurts every one of us. as for bleeding, NOT everyone bleeds, in fact hardly any girl i know actually did bleed. if you do, it shouldn't be much, just make sure there is something under you, just in case. if you guys really love each other, it will be special even through the pain. no one can tell you that you're not ready, as long as you feel ready, and of course are ready to accept any consequences that may or may not happen (i was 16, and while i know a baby at that age would have sucked, i dont regret it because we did love each other). you will always look back fondly if you know you are ready. other than that, like everyone else said, just be sure to be safe. i hope that was enough of description for you to know what to expect and good luck! :-)

Answer 3

First make sure you really want to take that step with him. Make sure he has PROTECTION!!!! But when you first start it hurts like hell but as you keep going the pain will go away a lil. After it yall are done is really when you start to have the bleeding. You wont bleed alot like you having your cycle but it will bleed enough to when you wipe you see it and it maybe in your underwear. Your legs will feel weak and hurt so I would suggest that you dont walk around anyone like your parents that you dont want to think anything is wrong right after it happens. Other than that everything should be ok. Your lower stomach may hurt too depending on if he went that deep. Thats about it. You will bleed and hurt so just get ready. BE CAREFUL!!!!!!

Answer 4

Talk to your mom or some older female you trust. Too many dirty old men pose as young girls on the internet. The stories you get may actually be a 38 year old guy sitting in his tighty whiteys at the keyboard. Wouldn't you rather know the story's real?

Answer 5

I was 18. but usually between 16 and 20 is a good age. It all depends on the person.

Answer 6

I highly suggest you don't have sex. It has nothing to do with age, just, if you can't even spell "virginity" right, I'm not too sure you're smart enough to know to use protection properly, or even too sure if you "know" you "r madly in love".

Answer 7

um--- if you are to young to discuss this with a Dr or read a book about it, you are probably too young to be "doing" anything.

Also - no matter what- be "safe". your life (and others potentally) could be at risk.

Answer 8

painful for the catcher

enjoyful for the pitcher

Answer 9

i don't think you should do "it" at all. you should save yourself tell marriage