Ok....here is the deal...on valentines day i went out with this great guy, i mean hes cute, nice, smart and respects me a lot! but why the hell dont i like him?! i mean im sopposed to like him! well i do like him.....i just dont feel that special something you know?, like last year i used to like this guy that wasnt that cute....but everytime i was with him i just wanted to be with him all the time, i felt i was soo happy with him....until he moved to another country. So its been like 3 months and i want to move on....but i dont know why i cant! i mean i really wish i could fall for this new guy, i mean he IS PERFECT! .....whats wrong with me? And what should i do?
2007-02-21 09:14:39 · 5 answers · asked by PuNk RoCkEr GuRL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just because someone is cute, nice, sweet doesn't mean that you have a connection with him. It is not about outward looks, but what the person is like inside. I have dated very attractive guys, and I married someone that while some people don't think he is that attractive, to me he is the most attractive and most amazing man in the whole world. He is not perfect, he might be perfect for someone else, and for what the culture has told you is perfect, but you inside know what is best for you and so you need to find that, not date someone that everyone else thinks is perfect but in the end it will only cause you pain. :)
2007-02-21 09:27:09 · answer #1 · answered by Hawaiisweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looky here girl, stop beating your self up. there is nothing wrong with you. Secondly them out of country ******* come over here steal our education and then split. you were just a victom of what most forigners come here for, a free ride and a piece of booty find a nice american guy that will buy you nice things, be your side kick and enjoys the benifits of having a nice girl like you. if you dont feel comfortable around them there are plenty more trouser trout in the pond so go fishin and trow back what you dont to keep and definatly dont keep any trouser trout under 4 inchs, advice of the dating game warden
2007-02-21 17:27:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'd say that you are trying to force yourself to move on but you don't really want to. Also, people's hormones control if they really feel a pull towards someone, maybe he's just not right for you. Or maybe he's got some really knarley secrets and you'd do better just to stay away and you've got some rediculous supernatural force trying to tell you that. But I just think you should give it more time.
2007-02-21 17:21:31 · answer #3 · answered by dropdeadchicken28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing you can do. You cant force love. Toy with him and let him win you over. Make him work for it
2007-02-21 17:18:07 · answer #4 · answered by Calvin B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't force yourself to love someone. Find someone else.
2007-02-21 17:18:26 · answer #5 · answered by sanj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋