How Do I Know If a Shy Girl Likes Me and What To Do?

Question

Im 16, shes 17, we are in high school, shes part of this group of girls who have been friends since the earth was formed, they basically have no male friends, thay talk with some and sometimes hangout bu are basically an all girls group, so anyway the girl i like is shy, particulary love-shy

so anyways, i really really really like her and for example today at school i sat at their table was talking to some of her friends but she got there and then ended up sitting on the other end of the table with some of her friends and me with some of her f on the other end?
i guess she'd probably never go out on a one on one date, shes to shy
problem is i'm even shyer, waht can i do?
how do i know if she likes me, etc etc

help, unles i talk to her she wont

Answer 1

You need to ask her out. Don't ask her in front of her friends.

Answer 2

If she's really shy and she likes you, she will be even more shy around you. I know this seems tough, but if you want to talk to her and go on a date with her, you're just going to have to pick up the courage and ask. It's not so bad, what's the worst that could happen? If she says no, no big deal, you'll get over it quick. At least you'll know how she feels. If you want courage, imagine youself having to fight in a war and charging an army. Talking to a girl won't seem too bad after that.

Answer 3

I have the same problem in that I want to talk to this girl at my lunch table that I like but I am shy and she is not shy because I see her talking with her friends. Also, I don't sit with her friends yet but I am going to sit with her and her friends when I start talking to her.

Answer 4

I'm shy too and I know how she feels. My first boyfriend was 18 when I was only 15. You can imagine how shy I was around this older guy. Anyway, he became my boyfriend because he was SO persistant. He never gave up on me. He chased me around...I really liked him...but I could never show it or tell him because of how shy I was. He thought I DIDN'T like him, and he told me that. Anyway, he ended up having just ask me out. And as he kept coming back and trying to talk to me and not giving up, I slowly got closer with him.
Just be persistant! And if it seems like giving you the cold shoulder, if she's like me...she might just be scared out of her mind to actually talk to you!

Answer 5

shy girls are generally a no no. But if your really in love then she will come out of that shell. But until then ask her out. If she went away from her friends to be near you that is definitley a good thing

Answer 6

hmm..tough one. i'm a shy girl too. so the only advice i can give you is try and talk to her one on one about random things. like on the way to your next class or something. that way, she'll notice you singling her out. and there won't be pressure from her friend butting in to talk to her all the time.

and if she does like you she'll talk to you and laugh alot. but if she doesn't, she'll make excuses that she has class or is going to meet her friends.

basically to get to a shy girl, you have to make an extra effort. bring her out of her shell, talk to her, make her laugh, find excuses to be around her, excuses to bring her in the conversation. make alot of eye contact! girls notice that stuff. make an effort to treat her differently than you do other girls. extra nice, extra attention.

Answer 7

maybe try to ask hr out for a smothie or coffe at a local hangout BUT if her friends come along it might not be a good idea

Answer 8

u should try to get to know her better so if she is ur friend, she will talk 2 u more and then u can ask her out

Answer 9

Shy Girls are the filthiest minded sex pots on the surface of this earth.

Good Luck - I hope you hit dat.

Answer 10

talk to her freinds and just put urself out there and be like hey your in my lunch arent you if you see her in the hall or something.......... smile at her