Is it possible to find a girlfriend (boyfriend) from internet?

Question

What do you think?
I think its impossible...I have been trying months already, but no result. I've heard so many times "omg you are hot" or whatever... but still nothing.
What is the problem???

Answer 1

It takes more than looks dude.

Answer 2

I have dated many women from the Internet. There are allot of handsome faces on the web but you would be surprised at the lack of experience. First contact with ladies on the net can be very fragile. You have to watch what you write because women have only their internal reference to interpret your words. What is missing is body language, voice tonality, and eye contact. It is next to impossible to show your real personalty through a static profile.

To be quite honest a man has better chance of finding a date just walking down the street than on the Internet. It is far easier to build rapport and create attraction with a lady in person. Men are competing with sometimes hundreds of men on the net. Because of the shear numbers of guys writing to a lady men become disposable. Many women view Internet dating as a mystical magical wonderland to find her dream man.

I like meeting in person anyway because women are much more cordial. They get quite rude on the net at times. So do men but I am talking from a males perspective.

Answer 3

omg my sister put a thing on here and in the local news paper and guess what the same guy call each one I was like no way my sisteris not at all the best looking and the guy she meet shes with now of 5 yrs and have a 3 yr old girl so yes give time good luck

Answer 4

the success stories are flaunted because services want you to think they work. The truth is much rarer. You would probably have a better chance attending church, going to local shows or participating in civic clubs. The traditional ways still are the best and even if you did find someone, chances are they are not what they appear or are too far away for it to matter.

Answer 5

Possibly. Try legitimate dating services on line like Match.com. and a faith based dating service called E-Harmony.com. The cost is nominal, but you can exclude many weirdos by this way of trying to find someone. Whatever you do, don't try finding someone through chat rooms. Very dangerous. There are alot of weirdos in chat rooms.

Answer 6

Don't use the internet to find love. You do much better in real life. So many people are fake on the internet. Look at me! Do you really think a cat is typing this?

Answer 7

It can take a while to click (pardon the pun) with the right person. This can happen no matter what method you use to meet someone.

Concentrate on doing things that you enjoy, live your life, be confident, and the right kind of people will be attracted to you a little bit more effortlessly- one way or another. Good luck to you.

Answer 8

I met the love of my life in an aol chat room and we lived together for a year and a half. there were lot's of ups and downs and we finally broke up end of november. Now he has met someone else online and says he is in love with her now. So good luck to ya. I guess I was just another online fling for him.

Answer 9

I dont think its really legit. So many people are fake and ridiculous, and if it is for real you'll end up having to pay for it. I'd skip the internet hit the club, park, mall something

Answer 10

I think it is possible, but then again I don't go looking. You sound like a reasonable guy, keep trying or get away from your computer and try to meet someone that you can visually see.

Answer 11

It is possible. I met my husband on Match. com in 1995. We dated for a long time, and took time to get to know each other. We have been married almost four years.