I have been dating a guy for almost 6 months (we're both 25 years old). Everything is going great with our relationship in every aspect and I am starting to care for him and feel like I am falling in love. But, we have not literally mentioned the words 'boyfriend and girlfriend' to each other yet, even though all of our friends say we are and I feel like we are. We met at an online dating site; I discontinued my subscription months ago and he is still on there and recently updated a few items in his profile. A while ago he said he forgot to cancel his subscription and it automatically resigned him up. I can see he is still slightly active on the site. This is now giving me doubts about how serious he is about the relationship we do have.
How do I go about talking with him about where we stand in the relationship without scaring him away? Do I bring up the fact that I saw he updated his profile on the dating site and ask why he's still on it? Any suggestions are welcomed.
2007-02-21 09:02:23 · 4 answers · asked by summerlvr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't sweat the site. It's not relevant. Have the exclusivity talk with him and see how that goes. If he's not willing to be exclusive, you'll know why...
2007-02-21 09:06:44 · answer #1 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT'S TIME!!!!!
it is definitely time for the talk honey. you have been dating long enough and if your starting to feel the L-word then it is time, before you get to far in and if things don't work you end up getting hurt.Start by asking him where he see's things? that could lead in to the fact that you noticed his updated profile.Or that you are starting to develop stronger feelings...
just sit down start talking and see what happens. it's the only way to know....
2007-02-21 17:19:22 · answer #2 · answered by fg812 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, in a polite way. n
2007-02-21 17:07:36 · answer #3 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just speak to him about one evening!
2007-02-21 17:06:46 · answer #4 · answered by sircrazydude90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋