So there's this guy named Matt, He's a grade older but he's 19, I've known him for eight years when I was in third me and his lil bro *my grade* always fought and Matt always defended me. He and I have been really close since then including the fact that he lives a block and a half away.
Lately he's been confusing me, being more protective of me when I told him I used to cut, I've been sick for the last four days missing school, so when I called to see what I missed in our Japanese class, he told me he'll tutor me to catch me up, and he's a great cook and today he offered to make alot of chocolate based sweets and come and watch movies. He's never done this for any of his closer friends.
He also likes giving me hugs, teasing me and challenging me to sports that he knows he's better at. And likes to steal my hot chocolate... He treats me differently then his own sister...
I want to ask him to Junior Prom, should I? and how I've never been good with asking things like this...
2007-02-21 08:59:21 · 17 answers · asked by Redfox 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
with the cutting last year I had a problem with my parents fighting and then they brought me into it, calling me worthless **** but I stopped with that and basically avoid my parents
2007-02-21 09:05:16 · update #1
YES! DUH!
2007-02-21 09:03:28 · answer #1 · answered by HUNG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darling I am 23yrs old and I did not ask my heartthrob to the prom. Now I see how silly it was for me to miss the chance just because I was afraid of being turned down... I missed the opportunity of a lifetime, and I regret it. High school is such a minute part of life and I suggest that you take full advantage of this opportunity. Even if you are rejected life goes on... and you will at least know how he feels. Also it is better to do this sooner before someone else asks him.
To avoid the emotional burden make the suggestion as a friend, this may help ease the tension and you may determine how close the two of you are on the actual date. I wish you the best of luck, and don’t feel too badly if he does say no, because there is always someone better out there.
2007-02-21 17:09:52 · answer #2 · answered by deep in thought 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should! Why wouldn't you? Just tell him you need a man to escort you to the Prom. If says no just tell him you weren't asking him...your were expecting him to set you up with a MAN....;)
Anyway, you two get along/have fun and have known each other for most of your lives---those are the kind of relationships that either become great marriages or become big regrets...there's no good reason for him to say no.
If it makes it easier for you, have him read this question and all of the responses that say you 2 should be going to Prom together!
2007-02-21 17:10:14 · answer #3 · answered by Jeff W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him. I know you fear rejection, but that is a part of life. Everyone fears rejection. If you do get rejected, move on, don't take it too personal. You can still be friends. But from everything you mentioned I dont see why he would say no. Also, don't listen to JizzMopp's answer. Cutting is a serious subject. My girlfriend in college was a cutter. I definitely recommend counseling for this if it is still an issue.
2007-02-21 17:07:45 · answer #4 · answered by kingIII 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea ask him plain out if he wants to go with you to prom. See what his reaction is more friendly or romantic. Then go from there! You'll find out if he wants to go to prom with you and if he has feelings for you with the same question! By the way Im sure he will say yes...you seem very speciall to him
2007-02-21 17:04:42 · answer #5 · answered by lacyangl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just mention something like why not go together or something, so if he say is not a good idea you did ask him anyway and BTW, I think you should do something to show how you feel about him so he can do something else
2007-02-21 17:08:14 · answer #6 · answered by Monica E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to prom, give it up to him after. And dont start with the cutting thing ever again, what the hell is wrong with people.
2007-02-21 17:03:13 · answer #7 · answered by boxerslive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go up and say hi its easy pretend hes just one of your friends then when he says hi start small talk and ask him in the middle of all that it will make it a lot esier to pretend he is a friend!
2007-02-21 17:03:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's pop question. Ask it. If he says no, what's the worst that can happen? Or you can play shy and go alone. Ask it and be confident.
2007-02-21 17:04:38 · answer #9 · answered by oreo a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should, it sounds like hes crushing on you, to me. I would ask him out by doing something really cute that he will remember, ya know, to leave a good impression on him.
2007-02-21 17:03:00 · answer #10 · answered by Aime'e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him dont wait and let some other girl take him u could just say u want to g as friends iam sure he will go with you
2007-02-21 17:02:11 · answer #11 · answered by andralynn147 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋