Some may think they are,but maybe they are not.Some are cute and they think they are not.Do I make any sense.Some are down to earth people.Some think they are too good for someone.
2007-02-21 08:55:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can't stand women who think they are better than everyone. Your sh** smells just as bad as mine. I am cute, But I don't go around telling everyone, Hey I just wanted to let you know, I am CUTE! I feel that the women who don't think they are cute really are and the ones that are all about themselves are usually the ugly ones.
2007-02-21 09:01:00 · answer #1 · answered by sassygirliegirl27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of it depends upon what the rest of the world around them seems to be telling them, and how much of that they believe. Plus, a gal that looks cute to you, looks at herself several times daily, so may not be as impressed with what she sees, as you are with your first impression. They tend to see their faults first--what they feel could be improved upon, rather than the "hot" items about them, that you would first focus in on.
Others, that THINK they are cute, but are not, maybe just want to be, and are trying to convince others they are, so maybe, just maybe, someday they will truly believe they ARE cute after all.
But what it all comes down to, is we are all different, with different tastes. What you consider to be cute, someone else may consider gross. And this goes for someones self-concept also--you may consider her a fox, while she sees herself as homely & plain.
One of the things I have noticed the most, though, is that personality traits strongly affect the long-term attractiveness or ugliness of a person. A very beautiful chick who acts like a bitche, eventually begins to look ugly; while a toad of a girl can become quite pretty over time, if she has a radient, charming & giving personality.
2007-02-21 17:29:36 · answer #2 · answered by Howie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard the song with the words "she don't know she's beautiful...though time and time I've told her so". I think it's by Billy Joel. Yes, there are some females who know they are attractive and some are downright arrogant about it. They really aren't that beautiful because they are self-absorbed and their inside isn't beautiful like the outside. Then there are those females who are pretty/cute/beautiful who don't think they are. I think that makes them even more attractive. I have been told I am pretty. Some have told me I am beautiful. When I look in the mirror, I see all sorts of flaws that I wish I could change. I am always wishing to look better and I used to have a real insecurity about my looks. I consider myself fortunate if I can walk out the door without looking stupid. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and I do believe that most women/girls do not believe they are as attractive as others think they are. We are pretty hard on ourselves.
2007-02-21 17:01:24 · answer #3 · answered by Chimichanga to go please!! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that's true. A lot of people give me compliments, but I don't go around thinking I'm "all that" like some girls do. The ones with that kind of attitude are usually the ones that don't look all that good, too.
2007-02-21 16:59:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very down to earth, not super high maintenance, I feel good about myself, and I don't have to dress skimpy to show that. It is a special aura that is around you, you know you are cute, sexy, fun if you show confidence in a positive way, and not let the ego get to you too high.
2007-02-21 17:00:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I usually find women with real issues are focused on their appearance; and it's even worse when men are.
(*shrug*) I never thought I was "cute". You can eat a meal when I'm sitting across from you and not need an airsick bag, so I figure I'm passable. Above and beyond that, I never actually cared.
2007-02-21 17:11:49 · answer #6 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course you make sense. A woman who is cute knows she is cute, but doesn't wear it on her for all to see. In other words it just comes out naturally.
2007-02-21 16:59:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I am, of course I don't 100% like everything about me, but sometimes I look in the mirror and I'm like, "Wow! Great lighting, I look really good!"
2007-02-21 17:02:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most of us do. Some of them are just trying to be modest when they say they are not. But there are those who have severely low self-esteem and can not see anything good about themselves.
2007-02-21 17:11:05 · answer #9 · answered by filia_san 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know I'm cute because people tell me that I am.
2007-02-21 16:58:31 · answer #10 · answered by sanj 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋