i have a 10 day old baby girl and i love her so much i cant imagine myself without her...i never knew you could love a human being sooooooooo much she is my angel she is like my whole life i dont know what i would have done if i would have listened to some people telling me to have an abortion....when you were pregnant did anyone ever tell you to have an abortion soo many people told me to have one because i was so young im 16 but got pregnant at 15....also how old were you when you first had a baby
2007-02-21 08:51:28 · 20 answers · asked by ♥TaTyAnA's MoMmY 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
i had only just turned 19 when i got pregnant with my son..i am now 21 and my son is 17 months and i would die for him.
i dont know what i would do without him he is like the other half of my heart! i cannot explain the love i have for my son1 it truely an amazing feeling!
goodluck to you,i hope you and your daughter have many happy years together!
babies are not easy,but i'm sure you dont need me to tell you that lol
2007-02-24 04:58:30 · answer #1 · answered by yummy_mummy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 24 and my daughter is 6 month old now. I know that's not very young, but me and my husband didn't plan to have kids for another 6 years. I considered an abortion, but then changed my mind because of all the things that can happen after (miscarriages,...). A lot of other people told me that it's not a good time for me to have a child as me and my husband hadn't even been married a year yet. Me and my husband argued a lot the first 3 month. but then after the 12 week scan he was happy.
And then even happier at the 20 week scan when we found out that we'd have a girl.
Can't believe I ever considered an abortion. Don't want anymore though. One is more than enough for me ;)
2007-02-23 18:03:21 · answer #2 · answered by carmen1509s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way. I never considered having an abortion. People in my family and my husband's family are all pro-choice but they were telling me not to have an abortion ever. My mom told me if I ever have an abortion she would strangle me (joking though). I told her not to worry. I could never live with myself if I had an abortion. If I didnt want my baby I would give her up for adoption but I could never kill a growing thing inside me that is depending on me to help it live. My baby was born 2 1/2 weeks after my 22nd birthday. She is 18 months old now and I definitely want some more in the near future!
2007-02-21 23:56:52 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They didn't tell me to have an abortion but I don't think I could have. From the first heartbeat to the little subtle movements I'm feeling so far, I could not imagine my life without this child. We can only imagine what it will be like when he gets here. It makes the knowledge of lack of sleep fade. And this child that grows in you coming into the world...well what better feeling could you have. I know there will be a helluva of difficult times, but it just seems so miniscule.
16 weeks and 6 days pregnant.
I am 16 weeks and 6 days pregnant.
2007-02-21 17:02:13 · answer #4 · answered by Kelly s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would have told them to go stuff themselves since I dont believe in it at all I think you made the right choice it shows you have some sense of responsibility I wont kid you its hard raising a baby especially at 16 since you should had so many years of still being a kid left but I think moms love their kids so much cause they are a part of them and they show us the worlds still an awesome place to be discovered even after we think we have seen it all. I was 22 with my first I will be 24 with my second. Congratulations God Bless and Good Luck hun. =)
2007-02-21 16:58:34 · answer #5 · answered by Beautiful Dreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean - there is just no love like it!
I had my daughter when I was 16. No one thought I would cope on my own (the dad didnt want to know).
I did - i met and married another man a few years later. My daughter is my best friend, and she will be 21 this year. I couldnt face life without her.
Good luck - you will need it, but when you see your little girl blossom into a beautiful, independant woman, it makes all the hard work worth while.
2007-02-21 16:58:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good to hear that from you. You will never know how much your mother loves you until you have a baby. I have two kids. A 10 years boy and a 2 years baby girl and they give meaning to my life. I couldn't imagine what was my life without them. As I said to everyone: Nobody loves their kids thaN I love mines. Keep loving your baby and she will learn how to love her kids when she be a mom. CONGRATULATIONS WITH YOUR BABY.
2007-02-21 17:04:08 · answer #7 · answered by Ana C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babies are a gift. They give unconditional love to us mothers and we feel on cloud nine. I feel like you feel I have 2 boys. My first one I had when I was 20 my second at 24. They are a blessing. They have given meaning to my life. They make me a better person and give me strength to go on every day whether is a good day or a bad day. I only have to see their little faces and everything is alright in the world. Congrats on your baby take good care of her!
2007-02-21 16:57:06 · answer #8 · answered by MamyLaly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend had "our" baby a week ago and she is 18 and we did consider abortion, but now I couldnt imagine to have even thought of that...
I put quotations on our because now she tells me she had sex with my best friend,too so I am waiting for the DNA results...
2007-02-21 16:56:01 · answer #9 · answered by Chris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had my daughter at 27 nearly 28 and my parents really wanted me to have an abortion as I was their little girl and things became very strained butI had a partner and decided to keep her. They came around and they worshipped her. You can never love anyone as much as your child because you made her and she'll always love you.
2007-02-21 16:58:55 · answer #10 · answered by Welsh girl. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋