I know it is wrong but I started to look over cell phone bill when he had a call on his phone said it was a guy he knows and I heard a womans voice, then he said it was the guys wife...well she is not that at all and I do know who the woman is, and there a have quite a few calls!! What to do ???
2007-02-21 08:48:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would honestly confront him about your "insecurity" with respect to the "other woman" and also confess that you did peek at his phone bill -
do you have reason or not to question his being unfaithful to you.
Goodluck
Peace
2007-02-21 08:53:50 · answer #1 · answered by Porshe B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if this is the man you plan to marry, I would not worry about being wrong looking over his phone bill. Apparently he has already lied to you, NOT a good sign! If he keeps leading you astray by not coming clean, I guess I would either call the female or call it quits. If he's not coming clean with you, and their are many calls, I doubt they are planning your birthday party. I would also be pretty sure he also isn't going to end up marring you anyway. Because those are not signs of a man in love and ready to make a commitment. Sorry!
2007-02-21 16:59:26 · answer #2 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, If I were you I would call her myself and ask who she is but don't call from that cell number. Or check this out call that number and ask if the man of the house is in. That way you can find out if girlfriend does have a man. If that gets you no where as I was saying first off, call the number introduce yourself as so and so's wife and ask her why she is talking to your man. And if that gets you no where try this one.
Get your brother or a guy friend to call her and if he doesn't sound like him just tell your friend to let her know that your man left this number for him to call you there and leave a message.Ya gotta make it seem like for real so that she falls for it and gives information.
Me I get all up in there let me tell ya because if he thinks he's gettin away with something, not with this girl nothing gets past me lol!
Okay well I hope this help in someway!
2007-02-21 17:04:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talking to someone is harmless and you don't need to worry. if you think there is something more than just that going on you should ask him about it.
2007-02-21 16:53:24 · answer #4 · answered by lifeisrandom34 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he lies and cheats on you what do you think you should do?
do you want to live the rest of your life like that?
if so stay...if not dump him
without trust you have nothing
be cool...
2007-02-21 16:52:52 · answer #5 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl you better bring it up..if not it will eat you alive..but you know what he will lie regardless..
2007-02-21 16:52:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋