Hey...i love a lot my dear only one in this world whom i am ready to share any thing to tell ..that i do regulary...but i can not resist myself to fight..tell me some thing very serious..it is going very serious now a days..we both fight like any thing..please help!!!
2007-02-21 08:43:59 · 20 answers · asked by timetotime24hr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Fighting in a relationship is normal. However, if you are fighting constantly and going no where this is not healthy.
You both might discuss your fights when you are not fighting and think of ways that you can ease the fights such as adding some humor during them to ease out of them. It is also important to discuss with one another that you both make mistakes and that you must each be able to accept your mistakes and know it is okay to make them and that you can learn from it, grow and move on and that the other person is not going to hold it against you or judge you for it but stand by your side.
Sometimes, when you begin to look at "problems" that arise in a relationship and the reason behind the fights, they often become trivial and become humorous. You also realize that sometimes you fight out of boredom in a relationship especially if you have been together for awhile.
I would suggest you both try to focus on picking up something new to do with one another as well as open a new line of intelligent communication.
2007-02-21 08:54:20 · answer #1 · answered by LM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not in a competition, you are in a relationship! Both of you need to realize that and grow up... Together you two are a team, and should be able to unite to "fight" others, not amongst yourselves.... think about the issues, why is there a need to "fight" your point? Do you always need to be right, when there may be no right or wrong, just two different opinions..... let her have her thoughts, and you have yours... .accept each other as two separate people who have separate thoughts... respect each other, and be proud that your woman has a mind of her own, do not feel insecure with the fact that she may not agree with you all the time... that is the beauty of a relationship...things do not always have to be perfect.. Good Luck!
2007-02-21 08:50:03 · answer #2 · answered by JustJen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how long have you been in the relationship?
if you've been going out with your gf for some time now, maybe your relationship with her has already become a routine that being with her has stopped being fun already? maybe you feel that you already know her too well and there is nothing else to discover and you're already bored? sometimes, being in a longtime relationship makes a person less tolerant of his partner's imperfections and continuous arguments are often a result of this.
now, if your relationship is only at its early stages, maybe doubts and insecurities are causing the fights? maybe deep down you're still unsure about her loyalty and love for you and as self-defense, you fight and argue with her about every little thing?
i'm not a relationship expert but i hope my answer helps :)
2007-02-21 09:05:37 · answer #3 · answered by wonderwoman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guy would try to pick fights sometimes too, everytime you think of something to argue about try to resist. Also express this issue with your lady, come up with ways to not not fight.
2007-02-21 08:49:04 · answer #4 · answered by dancer_chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly, from a females attitude, i wouldnt say to do something TO her. somewhat u could permit her see that she lost some thing particular. i understand from adventure how u could experience. i did that my my fiance returned while we 1st have been given mutually. (humorous how we are mutually now). being new to love, ur extra in all risk to get harm if the different isnt new to it. if u rather love this female, and the the two one among u are very lots nevertheless friends, dont permit her understand that it has affected u. coach her that candy romantic facet of u, yet dont permit her too close. if u permit her in too close to to ur heart, too quickly, she might only be as in all risk to harm u returned. be candy, yet perplexing. if u are nevertheless friends, only act organic. dont act like ur nevertheless desperatly in love together with her. females dont prefer to be too klingy. we choose our area. permit her understand that ur nevertheless there for her. u dont prefer to be a jerk to her the two. tone each little thing down a knotch or maybe while she says "it doesnt hardship her" that u call non provide up, flow to 24/7, say too many candy issues, it rather is fairly bothersome. be perplexing, be solid. she'll understand what she lost. only think of with regard to the undeniable fact that "theres extra fish interior the sea" solid luck!
2016-11-24 22:33:32 · answer #5 · answered by pirozzi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This makes no sense...but I think you and your girlfriend are fighting alot. If so just stop fighting and let some things slide
2007-02-21 08:47:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You spend too much time together and you are getting on each others nerves. Try to spend more time with friends or get a hobby, try to spend less time with your girl or you two will kill each other
2007-02-21 08:47:10 · answer #7 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
once a fight starts, stop it! stop it before it starts. resist the temptation to fight. if she starts fighting with you, just remain calm and don't escalate it. in other words, don't continue the fight. end it.
I hope i helped ya hun. and don't worry what people say about your English. they are just jealous. :)
2007-02-21 08:48:20 · answer #8 · answered by A Girl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you will need anger management courses. Don't you realize that fighting is now a crime called Domestic Abuse on both of your part. I pray that you get professional help before you kill one another.
2007-02-21 08:50:29 · answer #9 · answered by myleshunt 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hope you are not a native English speaker, because that is just a horribly written question. If you have anger management issues, seek counseling.
2007-02-21 08:46:59 · answer #10 · answered by leaptad 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋